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Title: Cool quotes
Post by: Mermaid on September 05, 2012, 05:09:10 AM
I don't know if we have a topic like this. This is for motivational quotes/ pictures/ short stories.

Here's my first contribution:
From every wound there is a scar, and every scar tells a story.
A story that says, I survived.

(http://a5.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/c0.211.500.239.02728351127/p843x403/316704_415540621839465_1552761175_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Wed2Him?Whatever. on September 05, 2012, 06:17:22 AM
"You wanted amicable?  Amicable suggests friendly, and my FRIENDS do not treat me as if I were disposable." --Wed2Him4Ever

Granted it is not all that inspirational or motivational, but it does make me feel good now remembering I said that to my H. ;) ;D

Seriously, though, here is a much better contribution that I really did like seeing:

(http://i1250.photobucket.com/albums/hh536/w2h4e/tumblr_m0vkhiCAHp1ql75poo1_1280.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Mermaid on September 06, 2012, 01:45:18 AM
Love it, wed2him. Wish we had like buttons...  :D

Thought for the day:

“Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.”

(http://a6.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/c0.0.843.403/p843x403/314160_415751565151704_726792695_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on September 06, 2012, 03:56:58 AM
I have a great quote but am unable to attach it - can anyone help me??
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: OldPilot on September 06, 2012, 04:16:03 AM
I have a great quote but am unable to attach it - can anyone help me??

second button from the left is as follows (missing bracket at the end so you can see it.
Insert the website in middle

[url][/url

button all the way to the left on botton is

[img][/img

Not sure how else to help as I dont know what you are trying to attach,

If you click the quote or modify button on someone else post you can see how they did theres

Or copy and paste it here.
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on September 06, 2012, 08:28:51 AM
(http://media-cache-ec6.pinterest.com/upload/27584616437786395_XtmfajQ0_b.jpg)

Thanks OP - every day is a school day!! Yay!!
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Mamma Bear on September 06, 2012, 09:07:32 AM
 Love this idea. ;D    I like "Do more of what works and less of what doesn't!"   - michelle weiner davis
 This is a good idea for all areas of our lives!
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on September 06, 2012, 02:42:11 PM
I found this on 'pinterest.com - especially for mamabear!

http://pinterest.com/pin/403635185322591336/ (http://pinterest.com/pin/403635185322591336/)

Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: LearningIamOk on September 06, 2012, 06:25:37 PM
I can't take credit for finding this, CrazyStuff sent it in a PM to me. But I love it so much that I wrote it in a little book I have and read it every day.

'We must be willing to get rid of the life we planned, so as to have the life we have waiting for us.'
J. Campbell
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Rebel Yell on September 06, 2012, 06:34:15 PM
MLC ain't for sissys.....ME LOL
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on September 14, 2012, 01:06:25 AM
Not quite a quote but a lovely thought

http://blog.inspirationbygod.net/1952/little-things-can-be-the-most-important/


Wishing everyone an awesome day
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: kikki on September 14, 2012, 01:12:29 AM
A friend sent this to me the other day:

 “Go Forward With Courage


When you are in doubt,

be still, and wait;
when doubt no longer exists for you,

then go forward with courage.
So long as mists envelop you, be still;
be still until the sunlight

pours through and dispels the mists
- as it surely will.
Then act with courage.”

                                Ponca Chief White Eagle

 
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: In this for ME on September 14, 2012, 03:19:43 AM
If you always do what you always did: you'll always get what you always got

This too shall pass

Fear can do one of two things: It can paralyze you or motivate you. It's your choice.

Courage is fear that has said it's prayers

Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Mermaid on September 14, 2012, 01:16:40 PM
How about this one....  ;)

(http://a7.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/c38.0.403.403/p403x403/184101_3906805861830_192424538_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Mermaid on September 15, 2012, 09:37:24 AM

Quote
Where hope grows, miracles blossom.
~Elna Rae
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Mermaid on September 18, 2012, 04:02:13 PM
(http://www.tseringpaldron.net/components/com_wordpress/wp/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/ghandi-300x300.png)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: kikki on September 19, 2012, 06:31:21 PM
“Personality” is easy to understand. Your “personality” is how people experience you. It’s your public persona.

But what is “character?” And why is “character” so crucial in your marriage?

Character is who you are when no one is watching.


The reason so many people fail at marriage and an attempt at marriage renewal is NOT that they don’t like their spouse. It’s that they don’t like THEMSELVES. And while everyone else in their life is like a mirror reflecting their personality; their spouse is a mirror reflecting their character. And most people don’t like what they see.

Many people would rather choose to be with someone else than remain with their spouse and have to continue to be with themselves. (Did you get that?)


Mort Fertel (Marriage Coach)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Mermaid on September 20, 2012, 12:44:51 AM
Absolutely LOOOOOOOOOOOVE that, Kikki.

On that note:

(http://i2.squidoocdn.com/resize/squidoo_images/590/draft_lens15301861module132673481photo_1289488887buddha_quote_4.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Mermaid on September 20, 2012, 09:04:56 AM
“Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened, Happiness never decreases by being shared.”
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Wed2Him?Whatever. on September 20, 2012, 11:37:26 AM
I just like this photo, think it's funny


(http://i1250.photobucket.com/albums/hh536/w2h4e/public%20album/400062_326262547394661_183359748351609_1150701_751660727_n_zpsed6a56d2.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: calamity on September 20, 2012, 01:23:59 PM
This is what Wed wrote on her thread:

Quote
It takes time.  Journeys take time.  There's no shortcut.  No substitute.  You can only wake up in the morning and do your thing all day and go to sleep at night and repeat the next day.  There's the big "secret."  Stop thinking you have to do something to MAKE your heartache leave you alone.  You're closer to that day, every day, regardless of what you do.  Now, I'll admit, you can do things to help or hurt your sitch.  What I'm saying is, your sitch won't stop so keep plowin' through the dang thing!  Let your light simply outlast your MLCer's dark place!  This mistakes you've made?  Puh-leeze!  Your MLCer now resides in Mistake City, so let 'em go, baby!
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: OldPilot on September 21, 2012, 07:33:47 AM
I just like this photo, think it's funny


(http://i1250.photobucket.com/albums/hh536/w2h4e/public%20album/400062_326262547394661_183359748351609_1150701_751660727_n_zpsed6a56d2.jpg)

Thanks for helping me to FIX this so we can all see it WED
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Mermaid on September 22, 2012, 02:48:01 PM
Why haven't we got like buttons???


(http://www.yogaflavoredlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/toon_clinton_crisis_midlife.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: kikki on September 22, 2012, 04:51:27 PM
 ;D ;D ;D Perfect  ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on September 23, 2012, 05:20:33 AM

This one is for Mama Bear!

(http://media-cache-ec4.pinterest.com/upload/403635185322591336_w2QSghJr.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on September 23, 2012, 05:21:35 AM
(http://media-cache-ec6.pinterest.com/upload/133278470192099446_BPacxwfR.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on September 23, 2012, 05:38:15 AM
(http://media-cache-ec5.pinterest.com/upload/90494273733276250_b5EKFRgZ.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: kikki on September 23, 2012, 05:39:51 AM
Oh I like it MF  :)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on September 23, 2012, 05:43:43 AM
Thanks kiki!
I have been patiently trying to work out how to post pictures....finally done it and have a few saved up for posting when i could.

This one is for OP

(http://media-cache-ec2.pinterest.com/upload/198369558556502841_1XjFLtUc.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on September 23, 2012, 05:45:14 AM
(http://media-cache-ec6.pinterest.com/upload/198369558556499908_QmPTSUuj.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on September 23, 2012, 05:48:01 AM
(http://media-cache-ec3.pinterest.com/upload/95349717080885119_tUqk9Cjq.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on September 23, 2012, 11:17:07 AM
(http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-LSsAwBSgTwI/TnXxcdGoIjI/AAAAAAAADLw/h2hX4efopJU/s1600/85.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: watching and waiting on September 24, 2012, 11:31:35 AM
Nice one MF  ;)

HUGS
W&W
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: OldPilot on September 24, 2012, 11:34:39 AM
Nice one MF  ;)

HUGS
W&W
Yea you have been on a roll now that you have this new found skill.
Thanks for the EXPECTATIONS or not. :) :) :)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on September 24, 2012, 01:57:04 PM
I know OP!! I realised that I used to gain inspiration from posters in my bedroom when I was a teenager and here I am in my mid forties doing something similar but 'virtually'!

What fun!

(https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn1/550938_10151774408340451_1459408071_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Wed2Him?Whatever. on October 04, 2012, 05:48:02 AM
DON'T GIVE UP WHAT YOU WANT MOST, FOR WHAT YOU WANT NOW.
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Thundarr on October 04, 2012, 05:50:56 AM
Every rose has its thorn, just like every night has its dawn.

MF, I love your tag line (choose life)!
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Wed2Him?Whatever. on October 04, 2012, 05:55:36 AM
Every rose has its thorn, just like every night has its dawn.

*raises lighter over head, sways back and forth*
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on October 05, 2012, 01:52:43 PM
(http://media-cache-ec4.pinterest.com/upload/97882991871383409_ag89CYXj.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on October 09, 2012, 02:04:33 AM
This isn't a 'cool quote' but is a sensible perspective on FaceBook. The link is to a site called Baggage Reclaim which is all about having emotionally healthy relationships (good reading!!).

http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/is-it-time-to-take-a-break-from-facebook-when-facebook-is-in-charge-of-your-self-esteem/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+BaggageReclaim-TheGuideToSingleLivingDatingRelationshipsAndOfCourseManTaming+%28Baggage+Reclaim+Relationship+Blog%29

Wishing everyone an awesome day

x
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Trustandlove on October 09, 2012, 03:25:23 AM
That article couldn't be more right, MF.  I talk to my kids a lot about how FB isn't real, and so on, that it's more important to put time and energy into real friendships rather than having tons of FB friends, and so on.

And the bit about those who write things about their relationship "for show" was good!

Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on October 09, 2012, 07:18:04 AM
(http://media-cache0.pinterest.com/upload/22658804345237885_q91AAB2o.jpg)

Captured in one.......
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: OldPilot on October 13, 2012, 02:36:51 AM
From another board I post on.

Quote from: AntigoneRisen
I had to share this one. :D

  (http://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/302259_495795743773559_382390225_n.jpg)   
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Stillpraying on October 13, 2012, 03:37:21 AM
May we PLEASE have a'LIKE' button  ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on October 14, 2012, 05:02:34 AM
Is this 'our' Calamity J????



(http://media-cache-ec4.pinterest.com/upload/184436547209391462_834EiCaS.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: calamity on October 14, 2012, 07:29:51 AM
Hope so.  ;D
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on October 15, 2012, 12:19:10 PM
(http://lifesthirdtrimester.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/limitless2.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on October 16, 2012, 01:44:29 PM
(http://media-cache-ec5.pinterest.com/upload/46443439877124706_hqZJ2eOD.jpg)

apologies for the HUGE size x
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Mermaid on October 31, 2012, 03:28:32 PM
New beginnings are often disguised by painful endings.
(http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-TY6FxlJ1xwc/T4sxCDgYXRI/AAAAAAAAA3U/LzR1jnUTAs4/s400/PhoenixBird.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on November 15, 2012, 03:14:33 AM
(http://media-cache-ec3.pinterest.com/upload/60306082481388593_m75QyQTj_c.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Wed2Him?Whatever. on November 15, 2012, 07:27:47 AM
(http://i1250.photobucket.com/albums/hh536/w2h4e/giveupquote_zpsa0a29252.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Mitzpah on November 15, 2012, 09:51:38 AM
(http://i1250.photobucket.com/albums/hh536/w2h4e/giveupquote_zpsa0a29252.jpg)

Ain't that true!
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on November 16, 2012, 10:45:44 AM
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Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: ShineOn on November 16, 2012, 11:28:41 AM
This is one of my favorites...

(http://embed.polyvoreimg.com/cgi/img-thing/size/y/tid/21081079.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on November 19, 2012, 10:54:33 PM
(https://fbcdn-sphotos-b-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn1/544840_10151229810299074_2091428274_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on November 22, 2012, 04:13:55 AM
(http://media-cache-ec5.pinterest.com/upload/183732859767905937_OJgq6D7t.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Musica on November 22, 2012, 04:36:30 AM
Some principles for life , taken from American Indian wisdom.

Honesty
To achieve honesty within yourself,
To recognize who and what you are ,
Do this and you can be honest with all others
 
 Humility
Humble yourself and recognize that
No matter how much you think you know,
You know very little of all the universe.
 
 Truth
To learn truth,
To live with truth, and
To walk with truth,
To speak truth
 
 Wisdom
To have wisdom is to know the difference between good and bad, and
To know the result of your actions
 
 Love
Unconditional love to know that when people are weak
They need your love the most,
That your love is given freely, and
You cannot put conditions on it
Or your love is not true
 
 Respect
Respect others, their beliefs, and
Respect yourself.
If you cannot show respect,
You cannot expect respect to be given
 
 Bravery
To be brave is to do something right,
Even if you know it's going to hurt you.

Love this thread!!
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on November 25, 2012, 02:22:35 AM
(http://media-cache-ec2.pinterest.com/upload/256142297526571688_lx2CGFTa_b.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Mermaid on November 25, 2012, 05:36:11 AM
Some truly great quotes here... where are the like buttons when you need them?

Here's mine for the day

(http://sphotos-b.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/215869_448902421836618_981316508_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Azioni on November 25, 2012, 02:43:53 PM
My favorite quote:

"You don't know how truly strong you are until being strong is your only option"
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on November 28, 2012, 09:34:15 AM
(http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lpq2tjZ8Yx1ql58z7o1_500.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on November 28, 2012, 10:14:59 AM
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Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: calamity on November 30, 2012, 09:57:08 PM
“Imaginary evil is romantic and varied; real evil is gloomy, monotonous, barren, boring. Imaginary good is boring; real good is always new, marvelous, intoxicating.”
― Simone Weil

“Attachment is the great fabricator of illusions; reality can be obtained only by someone who is detached. ”
― Simone Weil
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Gallagher on November 30, 2012, 10:56:37 PM
A hurtful act is the transference to others of the degradation which we bear in ourselves.

Simone Weil

Attachment is the great fabricator of illusions; reality can be attained only by someone who is detached.

Simone Weil


Read more at http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/s/simone_weil.html#CD7Qu0bGTit4mLu4.99
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Mum of 3 c's on December 01, 2012, 02:59:47 AM
A woman is like a teabag,you don't know how strong they are until you put them in hot water
Eleanor Roosevelt


Edit I like this one - OldPilot :) :) :)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Wed2Him?Whatever. on December 05, 2012, 12:47:13 PM
Never place the keys to your happiness in someone else's pocket.
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Gallagher on December 06, 2012, 06:59:14 AM
In the book "The Law of Happiness" by Dr. Henry Could, he points out that only 10% of happiness is based on circumstances. 50% of our happiness is due to our genetics and the remaining 40% we control through the way we live.
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on December 08, 2012, 02:00:13 AM
(http://media-cache0.pinterest.com/upload/238831586459454103_RAVGHhAR_c.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on December 09, 2012, 05:24:46 AM
(http://media-cache0.pinterest.com/upload/263249540690413932_UF2dektY_b.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on December 22, 2012, 10:04:43 AM
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Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: leftylulu on December 22, 2012, 06:48:41 PM
Let go of your results.

The big enemy of happiness is worry, which comes from focusing on events that are outside your control. Once you've taken action, there's usually nothing more you can do. Focus on the job at hand rather than some weird fantasy of what might happen.
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on January 18, 2013, 07:46:38 AM
(http://media-cache-ec3.pinterest.com/upload/32017847320975205_Ha2DAMNq_b.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Wed2Him?Whatever. on January 18, 2013, 11:06:05 AM
(http://i1250.photobucket.com/albums/hh536/w2h4e/680221_3188.jpg)
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: JD on January 18, 2013, 12:19:36 PM
The mighty oak tree was once only an acorn that stood it's ground.
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Moving Forward on January 28, 2013, 10:28:59 AM
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Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: Ready2Transform on January 31, 2013, 09:08:17 PM
“There is no coming to consciousness without pain. People will do anything, no matter how absurd, in order to avoid facing their own soul. One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.”
~ Carl Jung
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: xyzcf on February 01, 2013, 07:36:06 PM
Love it!
Title: Re: Cool quotes
Post by: toughtimes on February 02, 2013, 01:29:12 PM
“There is no coming to consciousness without pain. People will do anything, no matter how absurd, in order to avoid facing their own soul. One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.”
~ Carl Jung

Wow!