Midlife Crisis: Support for Left Behind Spouses

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Title: Topics from WGH #2
Post by: With Gods Help! on October 16, 2012, 06:27:29 AM
I think many of the people on this site are going through MLC ..........there's one in particular called April.........it shows her from the beginning of the affair.........then when she leaves for o/m yrs later ............then leaves o/m after eventually resenting him ...........at times i got mad........reading some of the posts made me cry...........but i continued to read because i needed/wanted to get some incite into these peoples minds ...........a good read for the men too.............especially April............she finally splits from o/m in Oct..........goes to show the time we spend with our wife's/hubby's does eventually lay heavy on these people  .............xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

http://thecoupleconnection.net/posts/having-an-affair-but-cant-leave-marriage

Edit:
Previous topics from WGH.
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=962.0

This is going to start a group of Topics from WGH 2
Thank you all for participating.  - OldPilot
Title: Re: This site really opened my EYES!!!
Post by: Trustandlove on October 16, 2012, 09:46:49 AM
My goodness, what a site....  I felt like I was reading one selfish story after another.  The very last post is someone who was able to find her way back, but most say "well, I didn't plan to fall in love, but it happened, and hey, you can't deny feelings, can you???" 

Yes, there seem to be some clear examples of MLC, but many just seem loony. 

Yikes. 
Title: Re: This site really opened my EYES!!!
Post by: With Gods Help! on October 16, 2012, 01:03:15 PM
T&L the last post was the final one from a woman who started seeing o/m way up the page ......she talks of meeting the o/m she then explains how she feels.......then says she loves o/m ........finally leaves her h.......and moves in with the o/m .........i really posted it for the men so they could see it from a woman in MLC not many of those around.......thought it may help them to know that some woman do wake up...........and arent all MLCers loony lol  ;D ;D ;D xxxxxxxxx
Title: Re: This site really opened my EYES!!!
Post by: With Gods Help! on October 17, 2012, 10:19:59 AM
Another good article on emotional blackmail.........scroll down .........i can defo see h and ow in this ..........with holding her golden va-jay-jay if she doesn't get what she wants..........i can also see myself in some of this especially at the beginning of BD xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


http://peterfox.com.au/family_blackmail.htm
Title: Re: This site really opened my EYES!!!
Post by: kikki on October 17, 2012, 10:50:35 AM
Hi WGH
I just read through your old thread again and wanted to say thanks so much for sharing all of these fascinating articles.  Much appreciated.
Title: Re: This site really opened my EYES!!!
Post by: With Gods Help! on October 17, 2012, 11:16:56 AM
Hi Kiki thankyou.......OP put all the articles together in one thread for me .........bless his cotton socks ;D ;D ;D at least now they can be all found together instead of spread all over xxxxxxxxx
Title: Re: Topics from WGH #2
Post by: OldPilot on October 17, 2012, 12:52:02 PM
I am changing the name of this topic if that is OK?
Title: Re: Topics from WGH #2
Post by: With Gods Help! on October 17, 2012, 01:09:09 PM
Didn't know you were telepathic as well as a genius OP........... was thinking the same thing lol  ;D ;D ;D thankyou xxxxx
Title: Re: Topics from WGH #2
Post by: With Gods Help! on October 17, 2012, 01:17:16 PM
Oh im on fire lol heres another one......quite lengthy but some good bits in it xxxxxxxxxxxxx

http://gettinbetter.com/needlove.html
Title: Re: Topics from WGH #2
Post by: With Gods Help! on October 17, 2012, 02:41:02 PM
http://ptosis.hubpages.com/hub/addictivepersonality
Title: Re: Topics from WGH #2
Post by: With Gods Help! on November 11, 2012, 09:46:15 AM
Hi i know a few people have been asking about Rock-bottom regarding MLCers.........i found this article......... with a very good explanation .........the comments from others who commented are interesting too......... xxxxxxxxxx

http://www.thenlifehappens.com/2010/07/11/hitting-rock-bottom/