Midlife Crisis: Support for Left Behind Spouses
Archives => Archived Topics => Topic started by: riverbirch on January 23, 2014, 02:57:02 PM
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Just for Men hair color
Dating site commercials
E.D. commercials
Axe deodorant spray
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Teeth whitener
On-line shopping / Driveway is Fed Ex express
Bathroom scales
Anti wrinkle cream / have enough to paint a town
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Valentines day
Bills
clueless friends/family
The lack of a time machine
The fact that French fries are fattening
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Secrets
Lies
Cell Phones
Facebook
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The fact that French fries are fattening
OMG!! When did this happen??? ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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MLC
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Divorce court
Child custody agreements
Home wrecking OW
#1- EXCERISING !!!!!!!
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Anxiety
Stress
Not knowing what next
Cell phones as well. Mines shut off thanks to him and if he ever gets to pay the bill I don't know if I will even bother with mine again.
I hate the way social media is used to do this crap to all of us.
Motorcycles
Pool halls
The casino
Lies,lies and more lies
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LIARS, Liars, Liars
Cheaters
Scumbags
OW
Abandoners
Ppl who think they still deserve respect when they have
Degraded their family
Ppl who support liars and cheaters
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Facebook, thats how exH hooked up with ex girlfriend from high school
Happy, playful women in tampon and pad commercials
How everything that tastes good is bad for you
Cold weather (currently -30 celcius up here in Canada)
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-30? holy Mo FO! that's un comprehendible. It was 70F here in California today. But we are also in a severe drought.
Ok back to the hate.
I second MLC, and pond scum OW
Sleeping in a child size bed in a home that isn't mine
Not having any more damn good nookie with H
Not being able to control anything
Taxes
The insanity that has gripped H
Yippy, worthless little dogs
Being without my kitty babies
Mushrooms
No Precipitation (oy its gunna be a rough year in CA)
Possums
Speed limits
Grief
Crying
Pain
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Kitten, it's dry here in Northern Nevada too. The fire department is warning about possible fires now because everything is so damn dry. Gonna be a fun fire season. Not.
I hate wildfires
earthquakes
private name private number calling my house
300 pound men in drag with long stringy hair and a bad dye job, a mole that puts the wicked witch of the west's to shame, and thighs the size of Schwarzenegger's and not in a good way, also known as Voldemort.
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Ember mine found his from over 30 years ago that way too. She must be the same way she was when they were teens.
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Kitten, I'll second Valentine's Day and no nookie!
Air mattresses
Days and days of precipitation
Society's notion of "boys will be boys"
romantic comedies
delusion
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Facebook (seems to be a big gateway drug to an affair)
Narcissitic Personality Disorder Traits
Compliments followed by an almost instant bomb drop
Lonely weekends
Nightmares about this nightmare
Pictures of him on FB sitting on his stupid motorcycle at places very special to us...knowing that OW is most likely taking the picture :'(
All the uncompleted projects and messes he left behind in the house.
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Bladder control undies that will be mailed "discretely" to your house. mailman knows exactly what it is - aint foolin nobody
Good Morning, Mrs. Jones, Here's your diapers
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oh, his pictures on the dating sites that he took in OUR house
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Cell Phones
"Selfies"
FaceBook
No Child Support
Liars
Abandoners
Cheaters
Sin
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"Selfies"
Yep, pictures they say are selfies but were obviously not a selfie...taken by the OP. Would like to smack the naughty smirk he has in them off his face. ;) :D
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Greed
Envy
Sloth
Wrath
Gluttony
Pride
Lust
Basically, MLC really!
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Boo boo awesome.
Hate the mustache and beard I told him it looked good on him. That one's biting me in the butt.
Lots of tv shows we used to watch
The smell of skank on his clothes
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LIARS, Liars, Liars
Cheaters
Scumbags
OW
Abandoners
Ppl who think they still deserve respect when they have
Degraded their family
Ppl who support liars and cheaters
I agree with angel's daughter
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This is fun. I have more hate. I think Ill start out every one of these repeating MLC and OW
MLC :o
OW >:(
Insomnia
Hair falling out (oh my beautiful hair)
Lady Stuff problems :-[
Not being in my own house/kitchen
Trying to think about the future
The sick feeling in my stomach
The ache in my chest
Feeling like Im going crazy
The knowledge that this is nowhere near over. :'( :'(
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Happy couples (sorry, that's very grinchy isn't it)
Being told "you deserve better"
Not buying him things I know he would love
People feeling sorry for me
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OW and her drug addict son - which they would disappear into the outback never to return
The stupid wedding ad that comes up on the left hand side of this site
H silly adolescent giggle when he talks about old girlfriends/s3x exploits
People (H really) lying by omission, and telling themselves they are being truthful
That one granny hair on my chin that appears, an inch long, overnight and I discover it when there isn't a pair of tweezers within reach!
Not being able to move house or replace the furniture
And the lack of nookie, now I've rediscovered it........... Frustration :o ???
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Happy couples (sorry, that's very grinchy isn't it)
Being told "you deserve better"
Not buying him things I know he would love
People feeling sorry for me
DITTO!!! happy couples make me angry too. I essentially got the "you deserve better" speech. YOUR DAMN RIGHT I DESERVE BETTER! I deserve it from you Jackass! I work in retail and all day long I see things I know he would love that I can no longer buy him. Great post.
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I hate not being somewhat financially able to find a different place to live.
My kitchen gives me some aggravation here. ::) But I HATED the one I had before.
I hate thoughtless inconsiderate people.
Other than that not to much bothers me.
NC saved my sanity.
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Things I hate:
Not going to parties as a Mr. And Mrs.
No spontaneous day trips.
Selfish people who impose their own views on the situation, and tell you you deserve it when you don't do as they say.
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I never really thought of myself as a hater before mlc kicked in my life but I see now that I am capable of it after all.
1. Starting a new toilet roll !! when that paper rips into one bit that goes all the way round. Arghhhhh..... ( okay that was there before mlc :-)...)
2. People with no manners, they cost nothing.
Geez I am on a roll.... Not a toilet roll though!
3. Women who hate other women because they are jealous of their looks.
4. The victim mentality. OMG I hate hate hate that!
5. Saying I can't before even trying
6. Women who cheat because they were cheated on and see this as their revenge against another women they have never met or even know. Grow up bafoon!
7. Lies and liars is actually my number one. It boils my blood when someone has the audacity to lie straight to my face without even a flinch.
8. Asparagus, what is that all about!
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I hate:
"Move on" - grrrrrrr
people who don't use their blinkers - last time I checked they were a standard feature, not an option
nice clothes that don't fit anymore because of the LBS diet
seeing couples holding hands or kissing - bleh! Makes me wanna puke!
sitting in my house alone.
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Happy couples (sorry, that's very grinchy isn't it)
Being told "you deserve better"
Not buying him things I know he would love
People feeling sorry for me
Not grinchy at all - happy couples and happy families although I have begun to realise things aren't always as they seem!
I often completely forget that we're not together and have picked things up to buy for him... even my online shop has a 'have you forgotten' section - all filled with his stuff - beer, male toiletries, etc. >:( >:(
I hate that look people give you, with their head often tilted to one side, "Ahh that's a shame"... Grrrr
Shutting the front door in the afternoon and knowing no one else will be coming through it :(
xxx
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I hate that people think mid life crisis is a joke.
I hate that empty spot on his side of the bed