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Title: If you could name your H's current persona what would it be?
Post by: Buggy31 on October 21, 2010, 12:30:49 PM: Okay so what if you could name your H's alter-ego...what would it be...I'm throwing around the idea of "Forest" or "Boris".....Haven't made a decision yet but I'm definitely going with one of the two...Forest because it reminds me of Forest Gump when I imagine my H out in the world trying on all these different experiences and personalities..."Boris" I don't know...it just comes to mind....mostly when I have interaction with the dopey teenager child....He reminds me of some students I've had teaching...and I just want to send him down to the principal and let the administration deal with him!

So Forest is kinda like this ;D ??? ::)
and Boris is kinda like this >:( 8) :o :o :o :o :o ::)

Keep them coming...I can't wait to hear others.
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Post by: Mermaid on October 21, 2010, 03:08:47 PM: It's a hard one, to actually think of a name, that is. My H is definately still going through his teenage rebel without a cause stage; would like a bike, tattoo, earring, and plait. He still looks young, for a 52 year old. So I'm thinking James Dean / Jimmy Stark....

This in an introverted rural doctor, who's worn the same style clothes (jeans and polo shirt) for the last 22 years, and who doesn't like to do anything to call attention to himself. He sits in the corner in cafés, and he even walks silently.

The opposite to me; I can't walk between two chairs without knocking one over; I'm known for dancing and singing in the teachers' room at uni, and if I go into a room and no-one notices, I leave and go in again. Actually, I've become much quieter. I've had a phase as being suspicious and accusing; perhaps my alter ego was Sister Aloysius Beauvier (if you saw Meryl Streep in "Doubt"). Now I'm getting all Polyanna-ish again (yuck).
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Post by: Shantilly Lace on October 21, 2010, 03:34:30 PM: E.T
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Post by: readytofixmyselffirst on October 21, 2010, 03:43:20 PM: Ho Ho
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Post by: readytofixmyselffirst on October 21, 2010, 03:53:54 PM: Me- Don Quixote
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Post by: xyzcf on October 21, 2010, 07:32:10 PM: Don't have a name but the tv show "Lost in Space" kind of suits
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Post by: Sideways on October 21, 2010, 07:47:14 PM: This is a good thread...
I will have to say my H is a "Danny Zuko " from Grease. All struttin around like a peacock...

Lol-
Mermaid....my H got a bike, all tattoed, an earing -2 actually, and had a pony tail...and all dressed in LEATHER, gloves, chaps and jacket and vest....BLACK leather... he's all dangerous and stuff.....
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Post by: LettingGo on October 21, 2010, 08:29:16 PM: Buggy, My "old" husband was Ralph Kramden... the current one, Barney Fife! ;D
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Post by: Wed2Him?Whatever. on September 19, 2011, 01:47:12 PM: Van Wilder.
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Post by: BonBon on September 19, 2011, 01:55:39 PM: What a fun topic!

Mine isn't clever or anything....and it can only be understood if you are a fan of the US sitcom, "Everybody loves Raymond".....so if so, you know that Raymond's brother Robert often flips out and raises his hand over his head and points to Raymond and declares:

"A*S"!I

t's very funny because he does it the same way every time...I've often done it too, behind his back of course.
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Post by: Tsunami on September 19, 2011, 02:02:55 PM: Quote
Okay so what if you could name your H's alter-ego...what would it be...I'm throwing around the idea of "Forest" or "Boris".....

That's funny, I have continually been my usual smart ass self towards husband and said, "Run Forest Run!"

I'm being nicer now, but keep running you fool.
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Post by: Musica on September 19, 2011, 02:05:56 PM: Mine is Goofy, always goofing up ... but is much more angry too ... maybe Goofball is better!
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Post by: With Gods Help! on September 19, 2011, 02:39:28 PM: Hi my h is a toss up between pinocchio (due to the lies) ......i googled it and this is what it came with.......... (A living puppet, with the help of a cricket as his conscience, must prove himself worthy to become a real boy) .....ha ha ha he is a live puppet having his strings pulled by o/w.....with fog for a conscience or none in the beginning...............the other was peter pan or The Boy Who Wouldn't Grow Up and spends his never-ending childhood adventuring on the small island of Neverland as the leader of his gang the Lost Boys.....................i hope eventually he will turn into a better version of the man i married xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by: Mermaid on September 20, 2011, 02:37:56 AM: H has now changed from Rebel without a cause to Urban hermit.

Just needs to grow his hair and beard a bit more, and stare at me with mad eyes...
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Post by: StandandDeliver on September 20, 2011, 03:27:26 AM: H = smugly happy with himself between bouts of angst. As he has multiple personalities and lives in a generally teenage mentality that over dramatises everything with a type of asinine, but self-revering, self importance, he reminds me of the entire cast of Dawson's Creek...
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Post by: kikki on September 20, 2011, 03:35:20 AM: H currently alternates between Kramer (from Seinfeld) and Jack Nicholson in The Shining
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Post by: growing every day on September 20, 2011, 06:03:39 AM: My H should be called Edward. Emotionally Distant Withdrawn Avoiding Reality Dilligently.
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Post by: DCD on September 20, 2011, 10:12:31 AM: beavis.....AND butthead. right down that stupid laugh... :-\
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Post by: Mamma Bear on September 20, 2011, 10:15:01 AM: Keith Richards :o
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Post by: WarriorPriestess on September 20, 2011, 10:22:03 AM: Quote from: growing every day on September 20, 2011, 06:03:39 AM
My H should be called Edward. Emotionally Distant Withdrawn Avoiding Reality Dilligently.

Omg this is too perfect!
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Post by: LifeGoesOn on September 20, 2011, 04:27:18 PM: H goes between Alf, Eeyore, Fish, (Abe Vigoda from Barney Miller), and Eddie Haskell.

These are all overcasted with the really drunk driver videotaped from the squad car's dash cam, who tries to act really straight and is stumbling all over the place.
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Post by: mommy4ll on September 25, 2011, 08:09:12 PM: My H persona is Scarecrow from the Wiz. He needs to look for the OZ, "Cause if he only had a Brain"
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Post by: Wed2Him?Whatever. on September 26, 2011, 12:49:18 PM: "Bad Rafe" from Days Of Our Lives. The one that took the place of Sami's husband Rafe.
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Post by: honour on September 26, 2011, 01:21:05 PM: If you could name your W's current persona what would it be?

Deceased.
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Post by: kikki on September 26, 2011, 01:58:18 PM: Honour - That was priceless!! ;D ;D ;D
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Post by: Musica on September 27, 2011, 03:34:58 AM: LOL!!!! ROFL !!!! LMAO !!!! Excellent Honour