Midlife Crisis: Support for Left Behind Spouses
Archives => Archived Topics => Topic started by: UnconditionalLove on May 01, 2015, 11:53:10 AM
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This was brought up on a thread and I thought maybe I would post it here for discussion along with some Knowledge.
It's SPRING! Spring yes, just like the flowers, the trees and the grass so does the manic brain wake up! Are you seeing it? Have you seen a change in your H/W's behavior? Season do make them change and behavior differently. If they have been in replay before they could show some signs of replay again but it will calm down faster. Some MLCer's care coming out of winter and winter sometimes slows down the manic and brings on a depression, more needy side. Spring brings them back up and they become active.
Just thought I would see just how many of you are going through this in the last few weeks.
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Mine has gone nuts the last couple weeks.
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Mines out of his dark hole alright. Already took a vacation. :-* must be nice. I haven't had one since he BD.
I hear he's going on another lil trip in June. Great our anniversary month. Maybe he will buy the OW something nice for my anniversary....... :-*
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I think the Spring brings us all some changes. Winter can be depressing and when it's over it's such a relief!
I feel like I can breath again. Love putting my warm weather clothes back on.
I know what you mean though UL, mine is already running shirtless. ::)
I would expect that means keeping the gray chest hairs shaved off too. For some reason that is a trigger for me every time he does it.
This was one of the most shocking things my X did after BD. He is a very modest man. Wouldn't THINK to take his shirt off in front of women, out of respect. He's just old-fashion that way. When he started jogging shirtless I knew something was deeply wrong with him. :o
However, he seems more depressed this week then he's been for awhile so I'm not expecting much replay type activities.