Midlife Crisis: Support for Left Behind Spouses

Midlife Crisis => Our Community => Topic started by: Shantilly Lace on November 30, 2011, 06:27:31 PM

Title: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Shantilly Lace on November 30, 2011, 06:27:31 PM
Ok we have a few now that are attempting this so I will try and add the links so they can be found. These are attempts so that newbies as well as others can see it as a process not an over night thing and that it isn't easy.

Please note that it can cycle back as well.

If I miss a thread please let one of the moderators know so we can add.


A link to a thread for support that has links to other places for help (convoluted I know lol)


Reconciliation Support
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2364.0 (http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2364.0)

New Icons
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3343.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads
Post by: Shantilly Lace on November 30, 2011, 06:29:23 PM
Sassyone
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1837.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads
Post by: Shantilly Lace on November 30, 2011, 06:33:53 PM
Hyperglad
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1853.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads
Post by: Shantilly Lace on November 30, 2011, 06:46:07 PM
Patience
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1058.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads
Post by: LettingGo on December 01, 2011, 10:14:13 AM
THANK YOU FOR POINTING THESE OUT!!!

These are serious, reconnection attempts.... this is how it all starts, people.... the LBS has to be READY..... forgiveness must be felt.... and gratitude for the miracles in your life and lessons learned is necessary.... the MLCer comes back in stops and starts... pressure for him to be "Whole and well" before he can come back is a WALL that will keep the two of you apart....
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads
Post by: Shantilly Lace on December 01, 2011, 12:23:46 PM
Courageous Wife  (started out as Confused Wife)

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=670.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads
Post by: Shantilly Lace on December 02, 2011, 01:55:07 PM
BonBon
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1743.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads
Post by: Shantilly Lace on December 07, 2011, 04:14:29 AM
Wondering
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1883.0


http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3688.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads
Post by: Shantilly Lace on December 07, 2011, 10:48:54 PM
Angel61
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1410.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads
Post by: Shantilly Lace on December 18, 2011, 06:31:57 AM


Gallagher
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1937.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads
Post by: Shantilly Lace on December 19, 2011, 12:13:41 PM
You must be a Subscribers forum in order for this link to work

Angelgirl
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1124.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads
Post by: Shantilly Lace on April 04, 2012, 03:54:56 PM
Strong Girl
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2260.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads
Post by: Shantilly Lace on May 06, 2012, 02:57:49 PM
Mermaid

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2154.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads
Post by: Shantilly Lace on May 06, 2012, 03:01:21 PM
Rebel Yell

Link removed
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads
Post by: Shantilly Lace on May 08, 2012, 06:22:07 PM
Although NOT a reconnection story this link may have some information in it that will help get through the hurt.


http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2480.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on July 30, 2013, 03:33:43 PM
Evas

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2771.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on July 30, 2013, 03:36:30 PM
RainbowGal

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=6423.0

Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on July 30, 2013, 03:41:43 PM
Smitty2929

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2192.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on July 30, 2013, 03:43:42 PM
willitgetbetter

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2789.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on July 30, 2013, 05:01:03 PM
summer progress

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2328.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on July 30, 2013, 05:01:35 PM
crazyforhim

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3192.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on August 19, 2013, 05:39:00 PM
JD

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3898.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on September 04, 2013, 04:59:51 PM
ForeverStander

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3953.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on March 18, 2014, 01:41:05 PM
STP

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4735.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on March 18, 2014, 01:47:46 PM
31andcounting

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=6789.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on March 18, 2014, 01:49:35 PM
flying solo

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4148.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on March 18, 2014, 01:52:04 PM
MickiW

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4190.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on March 18, 2014, 02:28:11 PM
Resilient

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=6680.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on March 18, 2014, 03:20:03 PM
Both RCR (Rollercoasterider) and Stayed have been reconciled for many years. Their threads were not here because on the board earlier days everyone knew their story. We now have many new members that may not be aware of their stories so their links will be included on this thread.

Rollercoasterider http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4326.0

Stayed http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3816.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on August 04, 2014, 06:03:26 PM
OSB

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4138.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on August 04, 2014, 06:04:41 PM
Riverbirch

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=5293.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on September 16, 2014, 08:14:02 PM
hopeandfaith

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=5507.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on November 01, 2014, 11:45:45 AM
barbiedoll

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=7338.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on May 05, 2015, 03:58:48 PM
sobeit

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8561.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on May 05, 2015, 04:01:59 PM
holdinon2hope

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=7526.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on May 05, 2015, 04:03:56 PM
emerging_butterfly

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4615.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on May 24, 2015, 06:37:32 PM
eternity

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=6561.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on February 24, 2016, 11:38:02 AM
sada

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8151.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on June 12, 2016, 04:59:44 PM
NotGivingUpOnU http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2277.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on August 03, 2016, 02:46:39 PM
BBhelp http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8080.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on September 13, 2016, 08:34:46 PM
Heart to Heart - http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8222.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on September 20, 2016, 05:22:43 PM
Navigator - http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8237.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on October 23, 2016, 02:44:44 PM
Mamma Bear: http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=5731.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on December 01, 2016, 02:40:27 PM
Slow Fade: http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=7753.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on January 02, 2017, 02:38:40 PM
Opportunity to Grow - http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=6489.0
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: Anjae on February 21, 2017, 03:29:20 PM
star1009 -  http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3077.msg565981#msg565981
Title: Re: Links to reconciliation/reconnection threads and information
Post by: OldPilot on July 18, 2017, 09:10:45 PM
Vanisher - Return Stories (http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=9088.0)