Author Topic: My Story Baby steps, Hindsight, Forethought, Healing and Rebirth  (Read 1951 times)

Offline Acorn

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My Story Re: Baby steps, Hindsight, Forethought, Healing and Rebirth
« Reply #30 on: June 23, 2018, 05:26:48 AM »
Well we are ever so slowly progressing. 

Hey, 1P, I’m wondering if you would care to share some details for the above? 
You sound settled and confident.

A new bed?  Why not?!  New starts come in various forms. 
Live-in MLCer
Feb 2015: BD.  H has a Nuclear meltdown. 
Oct 2015: ILYBIANILWY.
Apr 2016: Affair discovered
Dec 2017: Seriously reconnecting

Offline Mortesbride

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Re: Baby steps, Hindsight, Forethought, Healing and Rebirth
« Reply #31 on: July 21, 2018, 03:57:24 AM »
Bit late to the naming party but I vote Gingey...as in the gingerbread man...Run run as fast as you can...can't catch me I'm the gingerbread man..


Until his leg snaps off and he get's devoured by hungry Karma.
You know this is MLC when you have played emotional hot potato with a pair of crotch-less tights.

Offline seahorse

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Re: Baby steps, Hindsight, Forethought, Healing and Rebirth
« Reply #32 on: July 21, 2018, 04:14:51 AM »
1P:

Haven't heard from you in a month.
Let us know how you're doing.

Hugs
Seahorses have one mate for life...

Offline FaithWalker

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Re: Baby steps, Hindsight, Forethought, Healing and Rebirth
« Reply #33 on: September 08, 2018, 03:16:31 PM »
Hey 1P.  I hope you are well.   :)
M-41
H-43
S-18
D-16
S-14
Friends 7y before M
Married 14y
BD 12/14/15 - 2 weeks after 14th anniv.
Divorce final 4/13/16
EA - 9/15-4/16
New GF 12/16
Engaged 6/17 (I found out 8/10/17)
Moved to her State 4 States away - 7/13/17
Eng. off 8/20/17
Moved back to our State 8/24/17
Saw his POF the first month back
1.5y later no signs of anyone new - workaholic

Link to my journey: 
https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=10630.new#new

"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass - it's about learning to dance in the rain."

"Don't become a container for bitterness.  It's a toxin that destroys what it's carried in."

"Sometimes - some things have to break apart so better things can be built."

"If we don't take time to heal, we will bleed on people who didn't cut us."

Offline Milly

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Re: Baby steps, Hindsight, Forethought, Healing and Rebirth
« Reply #34 on: September 08, 2018, 03:36:49 PM »
1P, I'll be following if you have time to post.
Married 1989, together since 1984 
BD May 2014,
D24, D21, S14
OW Physical Affair. He and she said she turned 34 the month of BD. She turned 50 last year.

Offline FearNot

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Re: Baby steps, Hindsight, Forethought, Healing and Rebirth
« Reply #35 on: September 09, 2018, 12:21:59 PM »
Thinking about you 1P! Big hugs!
M 46
H 40
No Kids
Married 5yrs, Together 11yrs
BD Oct 31/17
ILYBINILWY Dec 21/17
2nd BD- Dec 27/17
OW-Confirmed Jan 3/18

 Isaiah 43:1 " But the Lord says.. Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. "

"It's ok to be scared. Being scared means you're about to do something really, really brave." Anonymous

 

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