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Offline Anjae

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Meet-Up Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #20 on: January 08, 2019, 08:49:50 PM »
September may be OK for me.
Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together. (Marilyn Monroe)

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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #21 on: January 08, 2019, 11:34:00 PM »
June would be best for me, September is good too

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Me 60
MLCer 58
M37 years, Together 39 years
S27 & S26
Aug/Sept 15 - You are getting old before your time and I am never going to get old or retire
BD1 Dec 15 - you've been a wonderful wife and mother but it's not enough!
BD2 - 21 Aug16 - Moved out into our rental flat locally,
Feb 17 - Unhappy, need to move and start a new life with new friends - now know OW H had found out about the relationship - H ran!!!
May 17 - Moved to his parents home Spa town 200 miles away
Jan 18 - Hs mother dies
Oct 18 - Moved to Soulless town
Mar 19 - Hs father dies
June 10 - Moves back to Spa Town - bought a flat
Affair with my ex married friend - since around summer of 2015

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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #22 on: January 08, 2019, 11:53:34 PM »
I would love to be involved but i have two Festivals planned in june and 3 weeks in the UK in July. I dont think that my Holidays will Stretch that far.
Another Problem, what would I tell K? How do I know all These People from everywhere?  ???
Married - 19,5 Years pre BD
Together - 21,5 Years
Me: 45
W: 45 (Acts 25)
BD 1: 10.01.2017
BD 2: 24.02.2017 OM 28 (now 30) Trainings partner. W is actually getting People to accept them.
2 Sons - 19 & 21
1 Dogs and a cat.
Own home . Sold!
Divorce Date 21.08.2018
T1  http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8671.0

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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #23 on: January 09, 2019, 01:48:26 AM »
All months are an option for me. June would have my preference though.
M 39
W 37
D12 D5
15Y Marriage

08-2016/12-2016 OM1 EA with 21y old client (he turns her down)
10-2016 MiniBD - Wants to leave but changes her mind. I just saw it like she being angry and calming down again
08-2017 BD1 - ILYBINILWY speech, OM2 which she knew for 1 week and had seen for just 1 hour
11-2017 - Moved back in
05-2018 BD2 - Seeing OM2 again.
06-2018 - I leave the house
08-2018 - OM2 out of the picture
08-2018/11-2018 - Goes on 8 Tinder dates sleeps with one. (OM3)
12-2018 - Wants to reconnect.
xmas 2018 - BD3 says she can't do it and confesses to OM4

No D up untill now, but soon will be I guess.
Still standing

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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #24 on: January 09, 2019, 02:11:16 AM »
Any other chaps want to come and play?
T: 18  M: 12 (at BD) No kids.
H diagnosed with severe depression Oct 15. BD May 16. OW since April 16, maybe earlier. Silent vanisher mostly.
Divorced April 18. XH married ow 6 weeks later.
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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #25 on: January 09, 2019, 07:30:07 AM »
Yes yes yes! June or September will work for me too.
Me 47
H 46
S12
BD 5/16
H Moved out 6/16
OW--yes. Worked for H. EA turned into PA while I was in chemo. On again/off again like every high school romance

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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #26 on: January 09, 2019, 07:57:42 AM »
Ooh, Tuscany, wine, and I don't have to explain why I know people from all over the world.  ;D

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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #27 on: January 09, 2019, 10:06:06 AM »
So excited to see how many people want to come! We can always get 2 houses, so keep coming!

Whyus, why not tell her the truth? We're your support system!

Treasur, if we're near, you can come see my pink fridge and the little hayloft I'm loving!!

Enyo, we can definitely schedule in a wine tasting!
Married 1989, together since 1984 
BD May 2014,
D24, D21, S14
OW Physical Affair. He and she said she turned 34 the month of BD. She turned 50 last year.

Offline Passiflora

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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #28 on: January 09, 2019, 12:41:55 PM »
2nd half of june is perfect for me!


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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #29 on: January 09, 2019, 01:30:41 PM »
Following...D17 has booked her gap year to Europe and is very keen for me to visit her in September, so I’d be keen to meet up if it happens...organise without me, and I’ll see if the stars align!
Me 45
H 49
3 young adult kids
BD December 2013, left home August 2014, D June 2018
OW 17 years younger

 

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