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« Reply #80 on: October 22, 2018, 05:45:22 PM »
Hello my friend. It's been awhile.
Look forward to hearing more from you.

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« Reply #81 on: August 20, 2019, 06:44:43 AM »
Holy crap more than year I did not post anything ! How time pass fast. My fellow LBS's life will pass and we will even not notice it. My intuition never be trail me, and neither now. I felt that something will change significantly in this year and it is. She is awakening ! She change again job. She state self that point of life is to enjoy life fully, hedonistic view of life which in long term of course  will not work. And that happening after that period. She is sad because she cannot love. I told you that they cannot love. You cannot love when you are in low vibration of soul energy. This year were a lot contacts which are touch and go, but more frequent as she coming out of tunnel. I can sense that she desperately trying to reconnect with children. I am still in touch and go domain. I can sense that she start to vibrate on higher frequencies and gaining more clarity every time when I am seeing her.

More details in further posts about me, kids, her. I learn so much in last 2 years. I am going to share with you what I learn. I hope you guys doing well and walking own hero path resiliently.
To all of you I am sending my love ! Keep moving !

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Re: #4 - Lord, give me patience, but please hurry !
« Reply #82 on: August 20, 2019, 06:46:47 AM »
Good to hear from you Albatross  :)
When was BD?
T: 18  M: 12 (at BD) No kids.
H diagnosed with severe depression Oct 15. BD May 16. OW since April 16, maybe earlier. Silent vanisher mostly.
Divorced April 18. XH married ow 6 weeks later.
Healing and growing found here https://littleplotbythesea.wordpress.com

"Option A is not available so I need to kick the s**t out of Option B" Sheryl Sandberg

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« Reply #83 on: August 20, 2019, 06:47:51 AM »
Good to hear from you Albatross  :)
When was BD?

February 2013 !  :o

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« Reply #84 on: August 20, 2019, 06:54:44 AM »
Well Albatross, you'll have to fill us in when you get time.
Always interesting when one of them start coming out of their tunnel.  :)

Wow, 7 years.  Sure takes them a LONG time.   ::)
A quote from a recovered MLCer: 
"From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did."

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« Reply #85 on: August 20, 2019, 07:07:58 AM »
Well Albatross, you'll have to fill us in when you get time.
Always interesting when one of them start coming out of their tunnel.  :)

Wow, 7 years.  Sure takes them a LONG time.   ::)

She is most slower MLCer ever ! :D She start with separation phase in 2007 ! BD 2013.

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« Reply #86 on: August 21, 2019, 03:48:26 AM »
Albatross, good to hear from you! Please do share, not too much out of tunnel stories around  ::)
"I've seen dreams that move the mountains, hope that doesn't ever end even when the sky is falling. I've seen miracles just happen, silent prayers get answered, broken hearts become brand new. That's what faith can do." Kutless

 

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