Author Topic: Discussion Off and On-ers/Touch and Goers  (Read 3398 times)

Offline Thunder

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Discussion Re: Off and On-ers/Touch and Goers
« Reply #40 on: August 11, 2017, 08:41:37 AM »
Pretty clever there, Saving.   ;)
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Re: Off and On-ers/Touch and Goers
« Reply #41 on: August 11, 2017, 08:43:37 AM »
I have learned many sneaky tricks.  ;D
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Re: Off and On-ers/Touch and Goers
« Reply #42 on: August 11, 2017, 10:12:17 AM »
Well, are you gonna share?  ha ha

I did a lot of research on divorce a few years ago and found things my lawyer didn't even know about.   ;D
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"From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did."

Offline Absolutely Fabulous

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Re: Off and On-ers/Touch and Goers
« Reply #43 on: August 12, 2017, 09:08:47 AM »
Has anyone else been dragged to court over this "Unemployment" and "I can't afford what I got reduced at the onset nonsense for child support" ploy? I mean really, he's not paying what he should to begin with, and I doubt seriously that he can't work. Or that he's really unemployed to begin with.

This guy is a living, breathing, talking lie. I'm not surprised by this. I've been really holding fast to NC. It's just so irritating to still be dealing with this BS this late in the game.

I have much better things to do with my time, than to spend it in a courtroom listening to some sob story. He was enjoying his new life, and everything that goes with it. Made sure the whole world knew about it on social media. Now he's dropped off the social media map according to my kids. He, and his sister that left her husband of 29 yrs because of her MLC. The kids and I never complained to him or the OD about it. And now, he wants to be let off the hook? Sheesh, does this guy have to end up in a mental ward before this stops? Hit rock bottom already and leave me out of it.  ::)

I also grow tired of this constant invasion of my privacy. My phone is being hacked. Again. And, my FB security has been compromised. This time, I'm not getting alerts, so that means he's been tampering with that too. Not sure about my emails, yet. For someone who wanted me out of his life, he's gone to great lengths to know what's happening in mine. I have ZERO INTEREST him, his life, or his family and friends. Zilch. I guess the games will end when a judge puts and end to them.

Just needed to get that out.  :P
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