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Offline Never say never

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Meet-Up Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #10 on: October 07, 2017, 05:45:40 AM »
I can do anywhere except Myrtle Beach.  Husband took OW there last year on a vacation :( :(

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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #11 on: October 07, 2017, 05:58:06 AM »
A LBS get together sounds great! ☺ Anybody up for Amusement Parks or Indoor Water Parks? If so, I know of some places here in Ohio.
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Offline nah

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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #12 on: October 07, 2017, 07:44:05 AM »
I can go anywhere, anytime,.... just let me know.

I love the New Orlean's idea. 

AZ sounds nice too.

Or Thunder's house.  :D

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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #13 on: October 07, 2017, 06:56:45 PM »
I'm interested as well. 

A cruise is probably out for me but I would sure try to get somewhere for a meet up. 

Treasur and UK - I would LOVE to pop over for fish and chips.  If finances ever allow there are several of you across the pond I'd love to meet! 
After all, tomorrow is another day.
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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #14 on: October 07, 2017, 08:33:40 PM »
Denver anyone??? :D
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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #15 on: October 07, 2017, 09:22:06 PM »
Attaching.  I don't know if I can make it happen, but following just in case something works out
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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #16 on: October 09, 2017, 08:03:47 AM »
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Attaching.  I don't know if I can make it happen, but following just in case something works out

I'd LOVE to do this, but same for me.  Depends on the time and location.  Not much to here in fabulous Oklahoma, so I would love the chance to get out for a few days.
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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #17 on: October 09, 2017, 11:46:42 AM »
Sunny Calif is also an idea!!  Lake Tahoe, Yosemite ?
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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #18 on: October 09, 2017, 01:23:44 PM »
Sunny Calif is also an idea!!  Lake Tahoe, Yosemite ?

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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #19 on: November 26, 2017, 06:18:33 AM »

New Orleans Jazz Fest  (April 27- May 6)

Revisiting the get together idea....

I like CH's idea of the Jazz Fest, in fact, I'm going to plan to be there either way.

Who else is in?
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