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Meet-Up Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #20 on: November 26, 2017, 09:02:37 AM »
I'd love to go, but I can't get away unless someone is here with Mom.  My sister works for a school district so I can only get away during school breaks, either Spring break or summer, so that won't work for me, unfortunately
Married 11 1/2 years, together 18.  BD 9/2016, 2nd BD 10/16.  H moved out 10/16.  2 AS's from my first M.  Me 55, H 50. OW 23.  Moved back 4/18.  Reconnecting and working on our M.

"And once the storm is over, you won't remember how you made it through; how you managed to survive.  You won't even be sure if the storm is really over.  But one thing is certain; when you come out of the storm, you won't be the same person that walked in...that's what this storm is all about."

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Weekend in Vegas?
« Reply #21 on: March 29, 2018, 06:12:16 PM »
So I've been thinking about doing a long weekend in Vegas over the summer.  Anyone want to come meet up??
Married 11 1/2 years, together 18.  BD 9/2016, 2nd BD 10/16.  H moved out 10/16.  2 AS's from my first M.  Me 55, H 50. OW 23.  Moved back 4/18.  Reconnecting and working on our M.

"And once the storm is over, you won't remember how you made it through; how you managed to survive.  You won't even be sure if the storm is really over.  But one thing is certain; when you come out of the storm, you won't be the same person that walked in...that's what this storm is all about."

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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #22 on: March 29, 2018, 06:57:13 PM »
[quotehiking or relaxing in Sedona AZ  (always beautiful!)][/quote]

Yes Yes Yes!!!

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So I've been thinking about doing a long weekend in Vegas over the summer.  Anyone want to come meet up??

Yes Yes Yes!
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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #23 on: March 29, 2018, 07:16:41 PM »
I'd like to do Vegas.
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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #24 on: March 29, 2018, 07:19:31 PM »
Sedona AZ also sounds good
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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #25 on: March 29, 2018, 08:00:42 PM »
I'm in
me 55, H 51
S13, S9 & S9
M 1/98

7/16 - BD  - PA - OW: 49, 3 divorces, no children
8/16 - Separated - I kicked him out; he moved into his
          shop
8/17 - BD2 - H employs OW at his shop, three
          blocks from my home
5/18  - H gets OW a new job, two blocks from my
           home. Keeps trying to break up with her
8/18 - BD3 - H says he wants his wife and family back,
          then decides to move in with OW two weeks
          later
10/18 - H back to living at his shop most of the time,
            but OW still around
2/19 - Immigration issues resolved, so D now
          possible.  H is welcome to file.

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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #26 on: March 30, 2018, 03:17:37 AM »
Awesome!  I need to see how Mom does through her surgery first.  Then we can pick a weekend.   Is July better, or August? 
Married 11 1/2 years, together 18.  BD 9/2016, 2nd BD 10/16.  H moved out 10/16.  2 AS's from my first M.  Me 55, H 50. OW 23.  Moved back 4/18.  Reconnecting and working on our M.

"And once the storm is over, you won't remember how you made it through; how you managed to survive.  You won't even be sure if the storm is really over.  But one thing is certain; when you come out of the storm, you won't be the same person that walked in...that's what this storm is all about."

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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #27 on: March 30, 2018, 03:39:13 AM »
I might be able to go.  Las Vegas is easy and no car rentals would be needed, so save on money.  Any big city for a weekend would work for those reasons. 

Of course, there is lots of free things to do in Washington DC also!
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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #28 on: March 30, 2018, 10:16:28 AM »
July is better for me.
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Re: LBS Get together? Cruise or something else??
« Reply #29 on: March 30, 2018, 10:59:21 AM »
Vegas? Oh yes, I am in!
Me 47
H 46
S12
BD 5/16
H Moved out 6/16
OW--yes. Worked for H. EA turned into PA while I was in chemo. On again/off again like every high school romance

 

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