Author Topic: Meet-Up Would like to meet up with local LBSers pls redirect me if I can't post this  (Read 1052 times)

Offline iwantoffthisridsTopic starter

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We just moved to xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 I would love to meet up with some LBSers in the area. Is anyone available and interested??
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Offline Thunder

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Nope sorry Iwantoff, wish I was closer.
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Offline MCSINME

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Any LBSs in New England?
PM me if you're interested in meeting

Offline Sam I Am

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Central PA????
2019 - 365 New Opportunities  Bring It On!

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I choose to be excited - I choose to be thankful
I CHOOSE to be HAPPY

BD 10 29 2017  Moved out to OW/A began in  6.17
3/5/18 OW moved/H moved in with F
3/19/18  H moved home into spare room 
7.14.18  Moved to be with OW in another State
9.4.18  Moved back...Living with Parents/OW Out of State 
11.1.18  Moved somewhere  Part of H's belonging are boxed on parents side porch
Nov 19 - OW moved back.  Living w/her D
Nov 19 - H started visiting on holidays
Jan 2019 - H announced to my inner circle that he moved to sisters  inc all belongings

Started Dating - Spring 1983
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Offline cowgirlslayer

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North Texas?
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Offline No expectations

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Beautiful,

I'm in South Florida, Palm Beach County.  Not too far!  I'd love to meet somewhere in the middle.  Have you ever been to Captain Hiram's in Sebastian?  I love that place  ;D
Married 11 1/2 years, together 18.  BD 9/2016, 2nd BD 10/16.  H moved out 10/16.  2 AS's from my first M.  Me 55, H 50. OW 23.  Moved back 4/18.  Reconnecting and working on our M.

"And once the storm is over, you won't remember how you made it through; how you managed to survive.  You won't even be sure if the storm is really over.  But one thing is certain; when you come out of the storm, you won't be the same person that walked in...that's what this storm is all about."

"The trick is to enjoy life.  Don't wish away your days, waiting for better ones."

Offline cplnorton

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I wish I was.  I think it would be great if there were meet up groups of LBS's.

North West Ohio anyone?

Me   M  39
MLC  W  36
Mini bomb drop Jan 2017
Major bomb drop 3/5/2017
Sons 7 & 9

MLC moved out officially into OM #1 House on 4/17/17

Divorce Finalized 9/13/2017.  She gave me everything

August 2017 Moved into OM#2 House.  :(

She filed Bankruptcy on 12/21/17.  she had 0 in debt when she left. 

Dec 2017, I quit standing. 

Feb 2019  She becomes engaged to OM#2

Feb 2019  She announces she is pregnant 

Link to 1st post:  http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8967.0

Link to 2nd Post:  http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=9430.msg619177#msg619177

Link to 3rd Post:
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    Im in southeast michigan.

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Hudson Valley, NY?
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I’ve met a few LBS in person. Some have become very dear friends. I hope you find a few nearby. If not, try getting on the phone with some you feel connected to. I text often with a few LBS - been a lifesaver. I’m in Washington, DC area.

 

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