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Offline nah

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Meet-Up Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #30 on: February 12, 2018, 05:39:25 PM »
If you guys don't mind, I would like to bring along E....

How are you guys with "My cousin Vinny in Toronto"?  ;)

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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #31 on: February 12, 2018, 05:44:45 PM »
Seems I may be able to arrange to catch a flight north to join this little meet up! 

After all, tomorrow is another day.
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #32 on: February 12, 2018, 05:48:51 PM »
Nah, I'd love to meet E!  But I'd also like some time just for us LBS' if that's okay.  I think we all could overwhelm a "normal" person hahaha!
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #33 on: February 12, 2018, 06:42:57 PM »
Seriously? Everyone stateside wants to come and see us canucks, eh? So awesome. Looking forward to it!
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #34 on: February 13, 2018, 04:36:20 AM »
Wow!  A whole lotta people interested in coming to the Toronto meet up.  At this rate, we might have to rent a baseball stadium for the meet!  I’ve got a feeling this may actually happen. :D

Thanks to all those that responded and are hoping to come!
I will try to keep this thread alive as a reminder that a fabulous LBS convention is coming up soon.

Thanks to the fairy godmother/god father that changed the icon from ‘discussion’ to ‘meet up’!




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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #35 on: February 13, 2018, 04:54:07 AM »
Acorn,

Have you looked at Air BnB?  Maybe you can find a house to rent, and we can all stay together.  That would be major fun!  Pajama parties!  ;D
Married 11 1/2 years, together 18.  BD 9/2016, 2nd BD 10/16.  H moved out 10/16.  2 AS's from my first M.  Me 55, H 50. OW 23.  Moved back 4/18.  Reconnecting and working on our M.

"And once the storm is over, you won't remember how you made it through; how you managed to survive.  You won't even be sure if the storm is really over.  But one thing is certain; when you come out of the storm, you won't be the same person that walked in...that's what this storm is all about."

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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #36 on: February 13, 2018, 06:00:10 AM »
Geez, don't come on for a couple of weeks and now there is a meet up???  Count me IN!!!!!!  Since it's only an hour away, sounds great to me!!  June sounds great!  WOOHOO!

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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #37 on: February 13, 2018, 11:07:22 PM »
I'm a yes!
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7/16 - BD  - PA - OW: 49, 3 divorces, no children
8/16 - Separated - I kicked him out; he moved into his
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8/17 - BD2 - H employs OW at his shop, three
          blocks from my home
5/18  - H gets OW a new job, two blocks from my
           home. Keeps trying to break up with her
8/18 - BD3 - H says he wants his wife and family back,
          then decides to move in with OW two weeks
          later
10/18 - H back to living at his shop most of the time,
            but OW still around
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          possible.  H is welcome to file.

Offline Milly

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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #38 on: February 14, 2018, 12:27:52 AM »
So jealous. I'll be there in spirit!
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Offline AcornTopic starter

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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #39 on: February 14, 2018, 04:16:07 AM »
Wow, I’m gobsmacked by the number of ‘yes’ responders!   To be honest, I initially thought the meet up suggestion was a shot in the dark.   

Milly, how about you send us something a little more solid than your ‘spirit’?  Like, ahem, a cardboard cutout of you?  ;D

To those that are only at the drooling stage: you have several months to organize your life so that you can get away for a few days???  Why not?!
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