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Offline 1phoenix

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Meet-Up Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #40 on: February 14, 2018, 04:48:40 AM »
If invited, here is one more yes.

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For we have fallen from our shelves, To face the truth about ourselves.  "The Gift", Annie Lennox

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Grace makes beauty out of ugly things.  U2 "Grace"

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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #41 on: February 14, 2018, 05:10:43 AM »
If invited, here is one more yes.

1P!!!!!  O, how would I LOVE to meet you!  I will let you know about the sugar hat... 
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #42 on: February 14, 2018, 07:03:13 AM »

To those that are only at the drooling stage: you have several months to organize your life so that you can get away for a few days???  Why not?!

I get financial worries and I know many on this site have been left a huge bucket of suck, believe me, I do but.....

Remember that trip you were planning on going on with your husband and didn't because of...

work
bills
family obligations
kids
fear of the unknown
fill in blank here....


If you live anywhere in the states all you need is a few tanks of gas and some time.... isn't that what we have been given?

Time.

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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #43 on: February 14, 2018, 07:06:26 AM »
I may even bring some sugar hats, that is if I can get them across the border😀
I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear — Nelson Mandela

I never lose.  I either win or learn! - Nelson Mandela

For we have fallen from our shelves, To face the truth about ourselves.  "The Gift", Annie Lennox

"You must do the thing you think you cannot do."  Eleanor Roosevelt

Grace makes beauty out of ugly things.  U2 "Grace"

We have all been dealt a hand of cards in this game of life.   Are you going to play or fold?

"Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose." Yoda

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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #44 on: February 14, 2018, 07:48:13 AM »
I wouldn't mind going. I only live about 4 hours away.
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #45 on: February 14, 2018, 08:06:17 AM »
UNBELIEVABLE!!!
I counted 13 people that would like to come to the meet up.  Plus one cardboard cut out of Milly. ;D

As we are not millionaires, it would be good to share the cost as much as we can.
NoEx suggested AirBnb.  An excellent idea for accommodation.  Those keen to have one (or more) gigantic pyjama party can save $$$ in several ways.  The rental cost, meals prepared at the place, etc.

Maybe some meeting places can be organized so that you Americans can park and drive together.
Why don’t you throw up some potential meet up points?

Nah, you start, please?
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #46 on: February 14, 2018, 08:22:16 AM »
Believe it or not, I'm a horrible planner.  I seriously don't even know where I'm going to be next week.

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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #47 on: February 14, 2018, 02:39:55 PM »
Acorn, don't tempt me!!
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #48 on: February 14, 2018, 06:09:33 PM »
Believe it or not, I'm a horrible planner.  I seriously don't even know where I'm going to be next week.

But we all know where you WON'T be on a given day in March!!   ;)
After all, tomorrow is another day.
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #49 on: February 14, 2018, 09:10:47 PM »
Believe it or not, I'm a horrible planner.  I seriously don't even know where I'm going to be next week.

But we all know where you WON'T be on a given day in March!!   ;)

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