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Offline Sam I Am

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Meet-Up Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #110 on: May 02, 2018, 06:54:38 AM »
I can not attend...I have decided to take a vacation to visit my son.  Sorry!
10.29.17 BD-Moved out to OW/A began in  6.17
3.5.18 OW moved away/H moved in with F
3.19.18  H moved home into spare room 
7.14.18  Moved to be with OW (another state)
9.4.18  Moved back-Living with Parents 
11.1.18  OW moved back.  H living w/her in D's basement room. 
11.18 - H started visiting on holidays
11.26.19 Call from H.  BIL died suddenly.
1.19 - H announced to my inner circle that he moved to sisters  inc all belongings
2.19  H volunteers to house and dog sit whenever.
Spring 19  H visiting house and doing chores on a regular basis

4.83 Started Dating
8.10.85  Married

D -29 Married with 2 children  Lives Local
S - 27 Engaged in Prof School across country
3 Dogs (he left them all behind - taking care of them but not really visiting or interacting with them yet)

Offline notdoneyet

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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #111 on: May 02, 2018, 07:20:41 AM »
How many people are there?

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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #112 on: May 02, 2018, 07:38:29 AM »
This is the question ...how many people ?  So lets starts a count ..

Me and Tyks and Acorn = 3
Married April 1985
5 children
Bomb Drop April 2013
Thrown out of house August 2013
Affair discovered November 2013 (i guessed who)
Home December 3 2013
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #113 on: May 02, 2018, 07:49:20 AM »
At my last count there were around 12-13 people interested in the meet.  However, as Barbie just mentioned, there are 3 fully committed because we don’t live too far away from Toronto. 

 
Maybe early july ( away from Canada Day) is a better idea... just throwing that out there for consideration... it does not matter a bit to me .   

July 1 weekend is a tricky time for Canadians.  You know, long weekend and all.  I’m going to throw in alternative dates.  (Well, Barbie, you started it!  ;D)

How about September?  All the hustle and bustle of summer holidays will be over, kids back at school, potentially lower costs for hotels, airfare. 

Could be October, too.

What do you all think?  Am I crazy???
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #114 on: May 02, 2018, 08:19:58 AM »
I like that option. I'm going to Florida at the end of May and will most likely need some recoup time between billing cycles.
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #115 on: May 02, 2018, 08:47:48 AM »

I am interested in coming..haven't joined in the discussion as was waiting for a firm date to be set..
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H - 55
Adult D- 35
Married 37 yrs. married 33 yrs at time of BD
date of BD  2015
OW- YES, 36 yr old with a 7yr old
H- moved out of our home in  2015 & moved in with OW
H- says doesnt want divorce, wants long term separation. doesnt know what the future holds.
 H- has introduced OW to his family and visits them often with OW.
 H- has introduced OW to a few of our friends.
 Entering 2018. H has not filed for divorce.
He is still living with OW
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #116 on: May 02, 2018, 11:43:26 AM »
I would entertain a meeting later in the summer or early fall.  Also would only be attending for the weekend...fri/sat leave early sunday
10.29.17 BD-Moved out to OW/A began in  6.17
3.5.18 OW moved away/H moved in with F
3.19.18  H moved home into spare room 
7.14.18  Moved to be with OW (another state)
9.4.18  Moved back-Living with Parents 
11.1.18  OW moved back.  H living w/her in D's basement room. 
11.18 - H started visiting on holidays
11.26.19 Call from H.  BIL died suddenly.
1.19 - H announced to my inner circle that he moved to sisters  inc all belongings
2.19  H volunteers to house and dog sit whenever.
Spring 19  H visiting house and doing chores on a regular basis

4.83 Started Dating
8.10.85  Married

D -29 Married with 2 children  Lives Local
S - 27 Engaged in Prof School across country
3 Dogs (he left them all behind - taking care of them but not really visiting or interacting with them yet)

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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #117 on: May 02, 2018, 02:08:56 PM »
My gut tells me that a fall meeting might be better, but like Sam, I could only do a long weekend due to work constraints (we pick our vacation in the Fall for the entire next year), and I don’t have any September days... :-\
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #118 on: May 03, 2018, 05:11:03 PM »
I have the last week of June off, but really can't make firm plans until I see how Mom is doing.  If you change it, I'll still try to see if I can make it  ;)
Married 11 1/2 years, together 18.  BD 9/2016, 2nd BD 10/16.  H moved out 10/16.  2 AS's from my first M.  Me 55, H 50. OW 23.  Moved back 4/18.  Reconnecting and working on our M.

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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #119 on: May 06, 2018, 01:05:00 PM »
I am going to be in Niagara for two weeks, from late June to early July.   I haven't booked the flights yet, but it is absolutely definite: my Mom's Celebration of Life is on July 1st.

Because I will have my three boys with me, I was thinking that I would come up to T.O. just overnight.
It is entirely possible that my boys would come with me, but for part of the time I could let them hang out in the hotel room with iPads and room service  ;D, so I could at least have a little time to get to know you all.
me 55, H 51
S13, S9 & S9
M 1/98

7/16 - BD  - PA - OW: 49, 3 divorces, no children
8/16 - Separated - I kicked him out; he moved into his
          shop
8/17 - BD2 - H employs OW at his shop, three
          blocks from my home
5/18  - H gets OW a new job, two blocks from my
           home. Keeps trying to break up with her
8/18 - BD3 - H says he wants his wife and family back,
          then decides to move in with OW two weeks
          later
10/18 - H back to living at his shop most of the time,
            but OW still around
2/19 - Immigration issues resolved, so D now
          possible.  H is welcome to file.

 

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