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Offline FamilyIsMyGoalTopic starter

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Meet-Up Anyone want to start a meetup in the Hudson Valley in NYS?
« on: February 18, 2018, 08:10:52 AM »
I'm in Dutchess County.  Anyone else close by?  Want to meet?
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Re: Anyone want to start a meetup in the Hudson Valley in NYS?
« Reply #1 on: February 18, 2018, 09:32:21 AM »
I'm in Onondaga county.  :)
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Re: Anyone want to start a meetup in the Hudson Valley in NYS?
« Reply #2 on: February 18, 2018, 11:12:55 AM »
Too far for me - Maine.  Sorry.
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Re: Anyone want to start a meetup in the Hudson Valley in NYS?
« Reply #3 on: February 19, 2018, 04:17:35 AM »
Count me in  :)
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Re: Anyone want to start a meetup in the Hudson Valley in NYS?
« Reply #4 on: February 23, 2018, 09:34:17 PM »
I'm about 4 hours west.

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Re: Anyone want to start a meetup in the Hudson Valley in NYS?
« Reply #5 on: June 25, 2018, 06:20:17 AM »
Bump...just in case any new people are from the area...
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Re: Anyone want to start a meetup in the Hudson Valley in NYS?
« Reply #6 on: June 26, 2018, 04:44:04 AM »
Thanks Kintsugi!
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Re: Anyone want to start a meetup in the Hudson Valley in NYS?
« Reply #7 on: June 26, 2018, 08:08:35 AM »
Hmm - I missed this thread completely, let me know, if you do a meetup - although so far this summer I have been so busy - but maybe  I can come depending on where and when.

I used to live in Dutchess county

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Re: Anyone want to start a meetup in the Hudson Valley in NYS?
« Reply #8 on: July 17, 2018, 05:37:24 PM »
central pa.  willing to travel about 4 hours.  Not sure where the hudson valley area is.....I am about 2.5 hours from binghamton
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Re: Anyone want to start a meetup in the Hudson Valley in NYS?
« Reply #9 on: July 17, 2018, 05:50:13 PM »
Sounds good Sam! Maybe we could meet in the Poconos or something.
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Re: Anyone want to start a meetup in the Hudson Valley in NYS?
« Reply #10 on: July 17, 2018, 06:00:34 PM »
Poconos is good....Finger Lake region?  Plenty to do there and nice wineries to visit....I am flexible....
2019 - 365 New Opportunities  Bring It On!

I choose to feel blessed - I choose to feel grateful
I choose to be excited - I choose to be thankful
I CHOOSE to be HAPPY

BD 10 29 2017  Moved out to OW/A began in  6.17
3/5/18 OW moved/H moved in with F
3/19/18  H moved home into spare room 
7.14.18  Moved to be with OW in another State
9.4.18  Moved back...Living with Parents/OW Out of State 
11.1.18  Moved somewhere  Part of H's belonging are boxed on parents side porch
Nov 19 - OW moved back.  Living w/her D
Nov 19 - H started visiting on holidays
Jan 2019 - H announced to my inner circle that he moved to sisters  inc all belongings

Started Dating - Spring 1983
Married - August 1985

D -29 Married with 2 children  Lives Local
S - 27 Engaged in Prof School across country
3 Dogs

 

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