[Was your MLCer... (please answer 1-8 AND 9-10)]

Was your MLCer... (please answer 1-8 AND 9-10)

Live-in with AP and wallower

1 (3.8%)

Live-in with AP and high-energy

2 (7.7%)

Live-in without AP and wallower

0 (0%)

Live-in without AP and high-energy

0 (0%)

Moved out with an AP and wallower

4 (15.4%)

Moved out with an AP and high-energy

6 (23.1%)

Moved out without an AP and wallower

1 (3.8%)

Moved out without an AP and high energy

2 (7.7%)

My spouse is reconnecting/reconciling/reconciled?

3 (11.5%)

My spouse is still in the throes of MLC

7 (26.9%)

Total Members Voted: 16

Voting closed: December 03, 2019, 08:48:20 AM

[Seahorse]

I thought this would be interesting to touch on the recent question of whether there's a consistency in the type of MLCers behavior and whether they stay or move out.
Especially with the divided opinion about the chance of returning for those who leave and/or divorce.

[Sunandshade]

Great topic idea, thank you Seahorse. For clarification mine was high energy living in (really he couldn’t have moved out), I left. He has now left alienator in the dust, followed me and moved home, we are reconnecting, he exhibits a bit of wallowing behaviour. Things take time- truest words ever spoken.