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#10: October 19, 2024, 11:03:30 PM
Adelaide, South Australia
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M: 54 (48 @ BD), H: 56 (51 @ BD); Married 20yrs, together 23yrs
D: 25 (19 @ BD), D: 23 (17 @ BD), 'Extra D': 23 (17 @ BD)
BD (that I didn't recognise as such) Easter 2018
BD 9th Sep 2018
OW - he (supposedly) met her in the pub a week before BD, told me about her a week after BD. Thinks 'their planets have collided' because 'their eyes met across the room' and they had an 'instant connection'. Lives with her. Is building a life with her.
Jun 20: H plans to buy a block of land and build a house with her (never happens).
May 22: Movement... (likely T&G? Time will tell I guess)
May 23: Yep, definitely a T&G last year. Still have contact but very minimal. He is a long way away from me these days. He doesn't seem particularly happy in his new life... but he's still there soooo....
Jun 23: I meet a lovely new man (M).
Jun 24: xH and OW finally buy a block of land
Jul 24: xH proposes to OW... in front of the whole family, just wow...
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#11: October 21, 2024, 07:36:18 PM
Trying something out here...

TO ADD OR EDIT:
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Hopefully the bold formatting will stay with the re-edits.

North America
Flummoxed: West Coast USA
Offroad: Southern CA USA
Baxter: Boston, MA USA
HeavenlyFocus: Dallas, TX USA
Johnny Bravo: Albuquerque, NM USA
Cole: Montréal, Québec, Canada

Europe
Treasur: Suffolk coast in east UK
Biscuit: North London
FrenchHusband: Southeast France
Dragonfly: Switzerland

Australia
Helpnewc: Newcastle
Evermore: Adelaide, South Australia


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Everything has a beginning and an end. Life is just a cycle of starts and stops. They're ends we don't desire, but they're inevitable and we have to face them. That's what being human is all about.  -Jet Black, Cowboy Bebop
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#12: October 22, 2024, 04:27:05 AM
Trying something out here...

TO ADD OR EDIT:
  • Click on the "Quote" icon in the bottom right of the most recent post
  • In the posting window, delete the quote brackets and text at the beginning and end of the list
  • Make your addition/edit and post
Hopefully the bold formatting will stay with the re-edits.

North America
Flummoxed: West Coast USA
Offroad: Southern CA USA
Baxter: Boston, MA USA
HeavenlyFocus: Dallas, TX USA
Johnny Bravo: Albuquerque, NM USA
Cole: Montréal, Québec, Canada

Europe
Treasur: Suffolk coast in east UK
Biscuit: North London
FrenchHusband: Southeast France
Dragonfly: Switzerland
Ursa Major: Darmstadt, Germany

Australia
Helpnewc: Newcastle
Evermore: Adelaide, South Australia
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Atomic BD - 13 Dec 2015
House sold & separated - Mar 2016
Divorce final 30 August 2019
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#13: October 23, 2024, 09:15:52 PM
North America
Flummoxed: West Coast USA
Offroad: Southern CA USA
Baxter: Boston, MA USA
HeavenlyFocus: Dallas, TX USA
Johnny Bravo: Albuquerque, NM USA
FaithWalker:  Colorado, USA
Cole: Montréal, Québec, Canada

Europe
Treasur: Suffolk coast in east UK
Biscuit: North London
FrenchHusband: Southeast France
Dragonfly: Switzerland
Ursa Major: Darmstadt, Germany

Australia
Helpnewc: Newcastle
Evermore: Adelaide, South Australia
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#14: January 11, 2025, 08:24:09 AM
North America
ReadytoFixMyselfFirst: Southern CA
Flummoxed: West Coast USA
Offroad: Southern CA USA
Baxter: Boston, MA USA
HeavenlyFocus: Dallas, TX USA
Johnny Bravo: Albuquerque, NM USA
FaithWalker:  Colorado, USA
Cole: Montréal, Québec, Canada
Madluv: Dallas/Fort Worth

Europe
Treasur: Suffolk coast in east UK
Biscuit: North London
FrenchHusband: Southeast France
Dragonfly: Switzerland
Ursa Major: Darmstadt, Germany

Australia
Helpnewc: Newcastle
Evermore: Adelaide, South Australia
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« Last Edit: January 11, 2025, 09:29:44 AM by readytofixmyselffirst »
There is almost something harder about someone being alive and having to lose what you believed to be true of them than someone actually dying.

Married July 1991
Jan 2018 BD1 moved out I filed for Div/ H stopped it
Oct 2018 moved back
Oct 2020 BD2
Feb 2021 Div-29 1/2 years
July 2021 Married OW
Feb 2022  XH fired
June 2022 XH bring OW to meet family due to xMIL illness
May 2023 went NC after telling XH we could not be friends
Aug 2023 XH moves w/o OWife
May 2024 xMIL visits XH/OW in their new home
Aug 2024 cut relations w/XH fam.
Dec 2024 D33 expecting baby ( XH not told)
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#15: January 12, 2025, 07:58:12 AM

North America
ReadytoFixMyselfFirst: Southern CA
Flummoxed: West Coast USA
Offroad: Southern CA USA
Baxter: Boston, MA USA
HeavenlyFocus: Dallas, TX USA
Johnny Bravo: Albuquerque, NM USA
FaithWalker:  Colorado, USA
Cole: Montréal, Québec, Canada
Madluv: Dallas/Fort Worth
Mama4: Seattle, WA USA

Europe
Treasur: Suffolk coast in east UK
Biscuit: North London
FrenchHusband: Southeast France
Dragonfly: Switzerland
Ursa Major: Darmstadt, Germany

Australia
Helpnewc: Newcastle
Evermore: Adelaide, South Australia
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Married 20 years
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#16: January 12, 2025, 10:53:06 PM
North America
Amazing Love - SoCal - Orange County, CA
ReadytoFixMyselfFirst: Southern CA
Flummoxed: West Coast USA
Offroad: Southern CA USA
Baxter: Boston, MA USA
HeavenlyFocus: Dallas, TX USA
Johnny Bravo: Albuquerque, NM USA
FaithWalker:  Colorado, USA
Cole: Montréal, Québec, Canada
Madluv: Dallas/Fort Worth
Mama4: Seattle, WA USA

Europe
Treasur: Suffolk coast in east UK
Biscuit: North London
FrenchHusband: Southeast France
Dragonfly: Switzerland
Ursa Major: Darmstadt, Germany

Australia
Helpnewc: Newcastle
Evermore: Adelaide, South Australia
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