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#10: October 11, 2024, 09:05:26 PM
Thank you for the vote of confidence. I don't think I'll be rattled, I just don't want to shoot the breeze with him or her. As if it's OK, because for me it isn't. But I have to consider the kids, so I'm thinking avoidance is my particular best option.  ;D They know. Should he ever acknowledge or apologize, my thinking might change. But I've managed Ds graduation, including pictures for her with both of us in it and dinner with a dozen people without ever speaking to him, so it can be done. It's a dance.  ::)
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#11: November 06, 2024, 10:23:08 PM
Hey OF. Sorry for slow reply!

Yes, a dance is a good analogy.  ;D

Not a dance I EVER thought I'd have to master, that's for dang sure!!  ;) :o ;D
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M: 54 (48 @ BD), H: 56 (51 @ BD); Married 20yrs, together 23yrs
D: 25 (19 @ BD), D: 23 (17 @ BD), 'Extra D': 23 (17 @ BD)
BD (that I didn't recognise as such) Easter 2018
BD 9th Sep 2018
OW - he (supposedly) met her in the pub a week before BD, told me about her a week after BD. Thinks 'their planets have collided' because 'their eyes met across the room' and they had an 'instant connection'. Lives with her. Is building a life with her.
Jun 20: H plans to buy a block of land and build a house with her (never happens).
May 22: Movement... (likely T&G? Time will tell I guess)
May 23: Yep, definitely a T&G last year. Still have contact but very minimal. He is a long way away from me these days. He doesn't seem particularly happy in his new life... but he's still there soooo....
Jun 23: I meet a lovely new man (M).
Jun 24: xH and OW finally buy a block of land
Jul 24: xH proposes to OW... in front of the whole family, just wow...
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