I loved the book but yes that was the one thing I didn’t find maybe true! Just wasn’t sure what other who read it felt! Its such a complicated thing MLC. I had no idea till Im living it this existed and if someone had said mid life crisis I would of assumed middle aged man getting sports car and gf. Not that that isn't right for many or some but its so mych deeper than that. Yet my therapist all but told me its not really a thing like I explained. She said it wouldnt cause him to leave me after 20 + years and etc. 🙄 she isn't my therapist any longer.