Mr. MCL also has been having issues with his " body part". It began months before BD. He said he thought it was because of a recent hernia surgery he had at the time but it didn't get any better. When I asked him why he wasn't doing anything about it, he said because he didn't need it right now. Said he wasn't thinking about sex and didn't care.He eventually was tested and his T level was normal, but his vitamin D level has been very low for quite some time. I wonder if this has anything to do with it. He told me point blank that he had not had an erection in quite sometime. I'm sure he figured it was because he was not attracted to me anymore. I asked him about it a couple months after he moved out and he said the same thing...who knows maybe it's just all lies. Right now, I hope it stays broken.