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MLC Monster Re: How long since BD?
#50: April 23, 2011, 01:04:31 PM
It is hard. But that story is encouraging in that they reconciled despite all the things she did " wrong".
And he came back after 20 months. It doesnt have to be five years , 10 yrs, whatever. You feel like you are possibly waiting for something hopeless. But that story is inspiring.
Thanks for sharing. If you think of any other significant details, please share more.

That's so interesting how the MLCer feels out of control. It totally doesn't seem like they are.

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Re: How long since BD?
#51: April 23, 2011, 01:09:53 PM
For me Bomb D # 25 mths I want to live alone, i dont want any responsibilities , even though son was only 13 at the time

            Bomb D # 20 mths discovered OW he had been seeing her on and off for 11 mths by then.

Moved Out April 10

Wandered back Dec 10, but kept his flat on

Left on Thursday again, to think about things, he has been here more since he left than when he was here  :o
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BD 1 March 09
BD 2 disc OW Aug 09
H moved out to his own place April 10
Moved home and gave up cave Nov11
H has been home almost 4 years and our relationship is now better than before MLC :)
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