[Dragonfly33]

You are right UM, my xh always had low BP because he is very sporty. That’s what I told him too and with the morphine they have him, it got even lower that’s why he fainted. You seem to be very active yourself. I think sport is good for as long as you do it in moderation. I like doing winter Sport myself. Once in a while I go swimming which really does me good esp my back.

Journaling:
As for my xh, he apparently ended up going to his parents after he was discharged from the hospital. He thought he would go home and just be back to normal. But he told ne he was in so much pain and can barely walk for more than a couple of minutes. He couldn’t even put on his socks. So I said well you overestimated yourself when you told ne u didn’t need any help from anybody and you will manage it by yourself. He said no I didn’t overestimated myself because I realized it right away on the day I was discharged from the hospital. Still too proud to accept he was wrong. Well, somehow I‘m happy I don’t have to deal with these things anymore. He is his parents‘ problem now. They are not very young anymore. The dad will be 90 next year and the mom is also in her 80s. That’s not easy for them either but the bad side of me is telling myself they deserve to suffer with their son after what they did to me. LOL

That’s for now. i wish everyone a great weekend!