I totally understand what you are saying but thats not it. You see, my son was having some health issues. Had to take him to a specialist and because of his symptoms the Dr. wanted to do a few test. One of a cystoscopy. Well I didn't know this but my son was so embarrassed about the Dr. seeing his private parts an that he had real anxiety about going to the Dr.. He kept telling me he wasn't going to go and I said yes, you have to have these tests done. He never told me why he didn't want to go. The Therapist then opened up to me and told me that son was very nervous about the Dr. seeing his private parts. Thats when the Therapist asked me if H has had any discussions with son about the birds and the bees like a normal parent would do. I told him no, not that I am aware of.