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#150: September 05, 2016, 08:23:39 AM
Hi Everyone,
It seems that when I read about return stories, they seem to take place like in 2013-2015 etc.
They never really seem to say if they are still together or if the "R" is still present today.
They just kind of stop posting....   Could these stories have been moved to a new thread?

Thanks everyone,
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Re: What happened - Female Mlcer return stories
#151: September 05, 2016, 12:04:40 PM
I suspect that many people whose marriages have been restored are not going to come to HS and post details. That difficult and painful part of their life is past and they are now together with their spouse and building their lives.

People come to HS to get support and many many leave for several reasons.

This is why it is so difficult to get a real idea on whether MLCers return home...there are too many variables and this is not set up like a research study that would follow people forward and generate true data regarding MLCers who wish to come back home.
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Re: What happened - Female Mlcer return stories
#152: September 05, 2016, 02:02:40 PM
Being that women outnumber men here by at least a margin of 4-1, we have far more men reconciling with women LBSers.

I would think that on other forums with more men there are more reconnections the other way.

We certainly have some here.
A few that I can think of without even looking.
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