[Musica]

I am so glad too that W2HFE brought this thread up to the present, as I also would like to extend my thanks to RCR and all who help to mentor, run th site , read and reply to posts. It has been a lifesaver for me too. Thank you all so much. xxxx

[Mitzpah]

I agree! Thank you RCR, HB and Stayed especially for all your help!

[Little Chief]

Thanks to EVERYONE on this site.  The love, the info, the 2x4's, all are greatly appreciated and I hope we can all pay this forward as well as have happy reunions in the future, where we are whole and at peace (with our without our WAS's).

Keep the faith everyone, we all came here by the grace of God, and with his help, we will all do the Mary Tyler Moore "hat throw"! (We're gonna make it after all....)

[growing every day]

I've said this before, but I'll say it again. This wonderful place that I stumbled upon in tears almost a year ago, has been a true Godsend! Things and people come in to your life for a reason... RCR, you've created something wonderful here. You should be very proud and satisfied that you are helping so many people. And of course all of the others on this board, the mentors, the posters, even the lurkers ( you know who you are.. LOL and you'll finally feel safe enough to come out and post) have created a wonderful community of people who are living day to day the best they can.

I can't say thank you enough!!

[WarriorPriestess]

I also am so extremely grateful for this board, for the articles, and for all of the wonderful supportive people who post here.  As I mentioned before, I was lurking on this board for many months before finally feeling strong enough to be able to post myself.  Just being able to come here every day and read got me through those horrible days, weeks and months after BD, and helped me in so many ways.  I hope to be able to pay it forward someday in some small measure. 

[Standing in Patience]

Thank you RCR. Without you and this forum, by now I would have gone crazy. No one would have believed me if I told them the story of my once faithful h and our marriage.

Kids, jobs, travel, taking care of sick parents. Throw in a mlc and life becomes turned upside down (and now you wondered how I could walk on the ceiling - ha!). Never thought I would be asked to keep myself and the children together but after the last year, I expect I can almost weather anything. As long as my children are good, I am good. I know they love their father, but they like me are weary and wary as well.

Now when I can and it's appropriate I validate to others that mlc exists and it's not about toupees, red sportcars. Unfortunately the impact can be huge, financially draining and LONG....hang in there everyone to the best of your ability. Blessings to RCR, HB, Stayed and everyone else.