"Thanks. I already have plans though."
Nothing more needs to be said.....
Praying, I understand that you are really desperate for reconciliation but that is NOT going to happen in the near term, if it ever happens... this is an ultra-marathon through the mud and not a sprint to the finish. So, that being said, the main thing to focus on is NOT reconciling but on Praying... What does Praying want in her life (besides her Mid-Lifer)? What hobbies does she have, what does she enjoy doing?
Once you start to find the answers to these question, you can start to heal and rediscover the parts ofyou that have been neglected for a while....
Taking care of Praying is the way that leads to a happy and healthy future...