Author Topic: My Story Where Do We Fit - Last Chapter!  (Read 4065 times)

Offline UnconditionalLoveTopic starter

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« Last Edit: June 26, 2018, 07:23:54 PM by Thunder »
God is with her, she will not fall
Psalms 46:5
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Re: Where Do We Fit - Last Chapter!
« Reply #1 on: June 26, 2018, 07:22:00 PM »
UL, you know I am following your journey.  It's been a long road.

I hope this new thread will be a new start for you.

Much love, prayers and strength sending your way.

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"From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did."

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Re: Where Do We Fit - Last Chapter!
« Reply #2 on: June 26, 2018, 07:23:48 PM »
Thank you Thunder! I do too!
God is with her, she will not fall
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Re: Where Do We Fit - Last Chapter!
« Reply #3 on: June 26, 2018, 10:20:54 PM »
Can't believe you are ONLY ::) four years in!  I thought you were here when I started posting, five years ago. 

You are just a newbie ;D

I do hope he hits bottom soon, we are all so tired of MLC and its stupidity. 

So sorry you have to file for bankruptcy, MLC is the gift that just keeps on giving.
"And when they ask you about me and you find yourself thinking back on all of our memories,
I hope you ache in regret as the truth hits you like a bullet and you find yourself replying: ""She loved me more than anyone else in the entire world and I tried to destroy her."  He failed by the way. 
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8412(Denjef's thread)

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Re: Where Do We Fit - Last Chapter!
« Reply #4 on: June 28, 2018, 05:10:37 PM »
Following UL!

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Re: Where Do We Fit - Last Chapter!
« Reply #5 on: August 07, 2018, 09:24:04 PM »
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Re: Where Do We Fit - Last Chapter!
« Reply #6 on: August 08, 2018, 11:28:38 AM »
UL, I'm so sorry you had to file bankruptcy. You're not the first, what a shame. It's a hard hit at this point in our lives after all the hard work. I am, however, certain you're going to get back on your feet again and even if not as financially secure as you should be, at least you'll have control of your money from now on.
Good luck, UL.xxxx
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Re: Where Do We Fit - Last Chapter!
« Reply #7 on: August 08, 2018, 01:22:25 PM »
Wow. Just skimmed through your threads. You recognized early and have been through it all in the last 4 years.

Wishing you well in this next phase of your journey!
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13 years of marriage
BD#1- December 22, 2014
BD#2- January 2, 2018
D filed 6/25/2018

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Re: Where Do We Fit - Last Chapter!
« Reply #8 on: August 09, 2018, 06:02:38 PM »
Thanks everyone!  Today is officially filing day!  If you go back and read my thread I knew from day one that this day would come.  I knew just about everything my ex would walk through.  He just didn’t have the ability to take on all that he wanted. His MLC fed him a bunch of crap he bought into. Here is a summary
He met a girl 20 years younger than himself
Force me to divorce him so he could say that I did
Told me he was upset with me because he didn’t get to go to med school
Got into conspiracy crap with girl
Would go with me to have liver surgery
Took money from the 401 K
Tried to get into storage unite
Tried to get into my desktop computer
Quick his job here where we moved to
He left and followed girl
Quick a job he where the girl is
Stopped paying on all accounts
Started lower my alimony
Lost his business where the girl is
Is having health problems
Is now at bottom and the fun between him and girl is just beginning

He has taken me to the bottom with him the difference is I saw it coming and despite what he has done I am still surviving.  I have now haven’t had any contact with him in over 2 months which is longer than I have ever gone.  This man has lost it all.  I’m sure he is blaming it on everyone else but at some point he will have to look at himself, right?  There is so much more in between all that I wrote.  I remember when I first came here I wrote where do we fit because although I thought he was going through a MLC he wasn’t doing anything crazy yet.  And then...left fell apart and crazy set in.  Oct will be my 3 year divorce.  WOW. What a journey.
God is with her, she will not fall
Psalms 46:5
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Re: Where Do We Fit - Last Chapter!
« Reply #9 on: August 12, 2018, 06:25:21 AM »
Yes a journey I never want to take again, thank you very much.   ::)

How is your liver doing now, UL? 
A quote from a recovered MLCer: 
"From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did."

 

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