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« Reply #110 on: February 10, 2019, 02:54:35 PM »
Thank you One Day, Thunder.  That’s what I thought. It would be the first Valentines Day in like 14 years since I’ve not done something. But I think just treating it like any other day seems the best approach. 
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How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate,
I am the captain of my soul”.

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Re: My second thread: A new home
« Reply #111 on: February 11, 2019, 10:38:31 AM »
Moon,

You have it right. Treat yourself a bit instead of her this year and keep moving forward.

Has she mentioned the ‘going out for a drink’ again? 

I hate to think of you being lonely, this is so hard isn’t it.
Rose 🌹
Married 15+ years with 2 children
BD1 - Sept 2016 and BD2 - May 2017
ILYBINILWY - June 2017
PA with MOW Mar 2016-Jan 2017 then EA until ?
Left home Oct 2017 to stay with his parents
Bought a family Puppy mid 2018 - referred to as ‘P’

Link to advice by my mentor, Phoenix, on what to tell the children about H leaving - reply #33 (it had a glitch)
https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=9313.30

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Re: My second thread: A new home
« Reply #112 on: February 12, 2019, 03:38:45 PM »
Hi Rose

No, no further mention of going out for a drink and I’ve not bought the matter up again.  I had the girls after school last week, however, and she did ask whether she and the girls could stay for tea.  I said that was fine, and we all had a nice tea together.  Afterwards, D5 put on a little impromptu dance show, which was fun.  But I looked over at W half way through and she appeared miles away, just looking way off into the distance.  All very strange. 

Valentine’s Day will be tough.  But I’ve got the girls Thursday night, and all three of us are off on Friday, and then it’s my weekend to have them, so i hope it won’t be too bad.  Thank you though Rose. Your thoughts are appreciated.  I hope you’ve got something distracting for Thursday as well. 
“It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate,
I am the captain of my soul”.

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Re: My second thread: A new home
« Reply #113 on: February 14, 2019, 02:28:23 PM »
Happy Valentines Day Moon!

Hope its going ok and that you are treating yourself! Great you 3 are off tomorrow and can have a fun time together. W will be missing out for sure but keep your focus on your girls.

I normally keep quite busy so today as been the same. Next year I fancy being wined and dined, not sure yet who with but I think twice is my limit of being ignored by H. Maybe that will change but we will see!

Remember you are the prize, Moon!
Rose 🌹
Married 15+ years with 2 children
BD1 - Sept 2016 and BD2 - May 2017
ILYBINILWY - June 2017
PA with MOW Mar 2016-Jan 2017 then EA until ?
Left home Oct 2017 to stay with his parents
Bought a family Puppy mid 2018 - referred to as ‘P’

Link to advice by my mentor, Phoenix, on what to tell the children about H leaving - reply #33 (it had a glitch)
https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=9313.30

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Re: My second thread: A new home
« Reply #114 on: February 14, 2019, 03:45:47 PM »
Happy Valentine’s Day to you too Rose
To be honest I’ve not really thought as much about W as I thought I would.  I think I’ve accepted she’s off on her own journey, and I mine. 

Good for you Rose, let’s hope by next Valentine’s you get the attention you deserve. 
Moon
“It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate,
I am the captain of my soul”.

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Re: My second thread: A new home
« Reply #115 on: April 01, 2019, 03:38:47 AM »
Moon

Just wondering how you are? Can’t believe we are in to April and through another month!

I guess the children will get off school this month for a while, hopefully that means you will see lots of them!

How has W been?

Rose 🌹
Married 15+ years with 2 children
BD1 - Sept 2016 and BD2 - May 2017
ILYBINILWY - June 2017
PA with MOW Mar 2016-Jan 2017 then EA until ?
Left home Oct 2017 to stay with his parents
Bought a family Puppy mid 2018 - referred to as ‘P’

Link to advice by my mentor, Phoenix, on what to tell the children about H leaving - reply #33 (it had a glitch)
https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=9313.30

 

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