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Offline KittyTopic starter

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My Story Re: We now return to our regularly scheduled program...
« Reply #120 on: October 12, 2018, 01:41:54 PM »
Hi Thunder, Morte, and Sam

I've got a few months to decide how I want to do this. I don't want to merge completely again, it bit me in the ass, and it's not really something I will feel comfortable with until Grumpy is out of Replay. At least his spending is about the same as it was pre-MLC.
Me 38; H 42
Together 21 years; married 12
No kids, no pets
BD #1 Late October 2017 - H says he feels like he is living with a room mate at times (ILYBINILWY) and has considered separation.
12/22/17 - I move into my own place.
8/31/18 - I was served...Grumpy has started HIS D.

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Re: We now return to our regularly scheduled program...
« Reply #121 on: October 12, 2018, 06:43:06 PM »
Kitty
You have time to see how it goes. Good you are not rushing back in to anything.
Alot will happen in 3 months of MLC. You already know that. 
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Re: We now return to our regularly scheduled program...
« Reply #122 on: October 13, 2018, 09:52:54 AM »
Tell me I'm wrong... 8)

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Re: We now return to our regularly scheduled program...
« Reply #123 on: October 13, 2018, 11:33:14 PM »
Need a bit of advice.

Grumpy said I could look at hos phone whenever I wanted. So when I got up at 2 this morning I took a gander through it. I see that he called OW Thursday morning on his way to work.

I immediately wanted to go back to my place. But I figure that is just me reacting. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I should handle it?

Is there a boundary you can set for this type of thing while they’re in Replay?
Me 38; H 42
Together 21 years; married 12
No kids, no pets
BD #1 Late October 2017 - H says he feels like he is living with a room mate at times (ILYBINILWY) and has considered separation.
12/22/17 - I move into my own place.
8/31/18 - I was served...Grumpy has started HIS D.

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Re: We now return to our regularly scheduled program...
« Reply #124 on: October 14, 2018, 05:00:14 AM »
Kitty, I would just wait and see if he does it again.  You never know why he called her.  Maybe it was to say he is getting back with you, stopped the D and not to call him anymore. You never know.

Personally, if he calls her again I would say something because he did say you could look at his phone anytime you want.  So you're not snooping.
A quote from a recovered MLCer: 
"From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did."

 

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