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Offline Anjae

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My Story Re: Thread 33 - Wind Therapy Part 2
« Reply #20 on: December 08, 2018, 04:19:30 PM »
Hi Ursa,

No radiator is cool. Having to take the battery out and keep in inside not so much.

BMW does not stand for Bring Me Water ... 

It doesn't?  ??? ;D

Think we got tricked with those 8C minimum.  ::) It is freezing outside. But my thermal jacked did the job and kept me warm.
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Re: Thread 33 - Wind Therapy Part 2
« Reply #21 on: December 10, 2018, 08:39:42 AM »
Following along UM! I wouldn't like a bike where I am.. It's constantly raining!  Car.. with a roof.. and heating..  ;D
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Re: Thread 33 - Wind Therapy Part 2
« Reply #22 on: December 10, 2018, 03:39:53 PM »
Following Um.

When I met H he had a Yamaha 1100, with panniers  and a fabulous faring , we spent all our holidays travelling on that bike.  We travelled to Spain, Andorra, France, Italy , UK. It stayed in the garage in the winter, our winter was too wet to take the bike out.

H sold the bike and put the money towards a deposit on our  first home.....nice memories....and then he decided to have a mlc and blow up our lives.....I soooooo  want to slap his head....very hard.   :D

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Re: Thread 33 - Wind Therapy Part 2
« Reply #23 on: December 10, 2018, 09:16:56 PM »
Ironically, I had a KawasakiConcours (GTR-1100) when STBXW and I met but sold it when I came to Germany rather having it shipped here. As for the rest of the story? Well, I'm here on HS - 'nuf said
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Re: Thread 33 - Wind Therapy Part 2
« Reply #24 on: December 18, 2018, 02:17:16 AM »
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Re: Thread 33 - Wind Therapy Part 2
« Reply #25 on: December 18, 2018, 03:30:19 AM »
Nothing new to report on the MLC front -

BUT.... I just had the 50K km Inspection done on my bike (Ouch to the wallet) but it purrs like a happy cat now... I've never had a Boxer motor before so I wasn't sure what to expect. I was told they run a little rough and it did... until now...

So, now I am waiting for Spring to arrive...
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Re: Thread 33 - Wind Therapy Part 2
« Reply #26 on: December 18, 2018, 03:39:12 AM »
Following along

Oddly enough my H bought himself a Harley Davidson 😳
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Re: Thread 33 - Wind Therapy Part 2
« Reply #27 on: December 18, 2018, 03:39:49 AM »
UM
Alot of guys I work with ride their bikes everyday. They suit up in all leather. They say it's not cold, ha. Hard for me to believe. 
I'm like You, I would be waiting on warmer weather.

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Re: Thread 33 - Wind Therapy Part 2
« Reply #28 on: December 18, 2018, 03:45:01 AM »
UM
Alot of guys I work with ride their bikes everyday. They suit up in all leather. They say it's not cold, ha. Hard for me to believe. 
I'm like You, I would be waiting on warmer weather.

I'm not too hard to convince to ride but it needs to be dry or above freezing... Hitting an ice patch on a bike is a sure way to have an undesired body-ground interface (aka Crash).... Riding in the rain is not much fun but if it's sunny and cold, I can deal with that...
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Re: Thread 33 - Wind Therapy Part 2
« Reply #29 on: December 18, 2018, 04:27:40 AM »
Im the same as you UM. The cold is not nice but rain is a nightmare. Ice, NO WAY! K and I got caught out a while back. 30km to get home in the rain AND it was dark. Not a nice experience, I was glad that we got home safely.
I removed both batteries last week and put them in the Basement. Looking Forward to spring now  8)
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