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« Reply #100 on: March 14, 2019, 05:19:41 PM »
I swear RT you amaze me!!!
On the other hand your H makes me want to vomit😡

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Re: Crazy train to nowhere - 7
« Reply #101 on: March 14, 2019, 08:18:32 PM »
You guys >:( This woman is over there tryin to have a real relationship with her man and y'all are takin the pi$$.  Shame on you.  She's waited a looooong time for this.

Meanwhile RT's H has bought himself a whole lotta free visits home (unless he already used those up before he left  :o).

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Re: Crazy train to nowhere - 7
« Reply #102 on: March 14, 2019, 11:21:17 PM »
Is it *really* a coincidence that H posted the picture.....and then IG broke? 
I think not!  ;)

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Re: Crazy train to nowhere - 7
« Reply #103 on: March 15, 2019, 06:21:27 AM »
Omg! Y’all have truly cracked me up 😂😂😂😂. If only this poor woman knew how much amusement her ugly elephant picture has created for us.

Thanks 31 - I’m actually surprised how ok I am with all this. I expected the first time he posted her to really break me instead I’m just shaking my head of the absurdity of it all.

H&F - my guess he was paying penance for all the recent time he’s spent with his family in crisis.

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Re: Crazy train to nowhere - 7
« Reply #104 on: March 15, 2019, 09:55:53 AM »
Ok I am really slow on this one.... but I guess I was just confused that a father with a D in harms way would travel half way around the world so his mistress could pet an elephant. I guess a person has to have their priorities in order. 
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Re: Crazy train to nowhere - 7
« Reply #105 on: March 15, 2019, 10:26:13 AM »
Ok I am really slow on this one.... but I guess I was just confused that a father with a D in harms way would travel half way around the world so his mistress could pet an elephant. I guess a person has to have their priorities in order.

DF is SO right  ::)
Perhaps ow's new nickname should be Nelly (as in the Nelly the Elephant packed her trunk and said goodbye to the circus....oh wait, nope, she's still part of the circus  ::)...but you're not  :)
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Re: Crazy train to nowhere - 7
« Reply #106 on: March 15, 2019, 03:23:32 PM »
Ok I am really slow on this one.... but I guess I was just confused that a father with a D in harms way would travel half way around the world so his mistress could pet an elephant. I guess a person has to have their priorities in order.

DF is SO right  ::)
Perhaps ow's new nickname should be Nelly (as in the Nelly the Elephant packed her trunk and said goodbye to the circus....oh wait, nope, she's still part of the circus  ::)...but you're not  :)

DF - you are definitely not the slow one here - especially if it is an impromptu trip like he was trying to portray. It would be one thing if he had said that the tickets had been bought months ago or whatever. As Treasur said it’s no longer my circus. I can’t make him make sensible choices 🤷🏽‍♀️  It’s taken me awhile to get to the point where I understand that I can’t save him and his relationship with the kids. Thankfully the week has been drama free with D but choosing to go to the other side of the world at this time is ridiculous. I am assuming he is as always bending to pressure from ow - since it was her bday wish to interact with elephants 🙄🙄🙄. Everytime I think he’s making progress he does some very stupid thing that makes it clear that he is still very deep in the tunnel.

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Re: Crazy train to nowhere - 7
« Reply #107 on: March 15, 2019, 07:18:49 PM »
Well, I am glad you are having a drama free week in his absence.

My X is currently in Florida at spring training texting pictures to the kids of all the fun he is having on a trip they were neither invited to or wanted on. It is going over like a lead balloon here. We have gone to spring training as a family several times. Can he really be that clueless as to how hurtful his pictures are?? Mind blowing.
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Re: Crazy train to nowhere - 7
« Reply #108 on: March 15, 2019, 09:29:48 PM »
I’m sorry DF. I am amazed at how clueless and tone deaf they can be. Especially when these were once seemingly sensible men

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Re: Crazy train to nowhere - 7
« Reply #109 on: March 17, 2019, 03:51:58 AM »
Sometimes I'd wonder if my H thought by sharing the photos and stories with us that he somehow felt he was including us DF???
They are so distorted during their crisis its mind boggling🙄

So hurtful to everyone. Sigh

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