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« on: December 31, 2018, 03:41:44 PM »
From the UK which is just coming in to the New Year (20 mins to go)

I wish you ALL peace, strength and renewed belief in yourselves and your own power and energy

And  to you and all your family and friends wish you health, happiness and contentment

« Last Edit: December 31, 2018, 03:43:18 PM by 1trouble »
"I can't go back to yesterday I was a different person then"..............Alice in Wonderland

you NEVER know how strong you are, until being strong is the ONLY choice you have"

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« Reply #1 on: December 31, 2018, 04:26:02 PM »
Here’s hoping 2019 is a year with more joy, good health and kindness for everyone 😊

( and less fireworks 😂 both metaphorical and real, celebrated the start of the new year with a drink and a catnip party 😻 fireworks are not pet friendly 😂)
At BD June 2015
Me - 49
MLCH - 50
No children, unfortunately
OW - yes
Together 26 years, married 23
BD - told him to leave, OW left her H, they ran away together
Nov 2015 - H left OW as he wanted to return, lived locally while we tried
April 2016 - told him it wasn't working
Aug 2016 - H living with ow again
MLC H - not quite a vanishers, more a Hider, very little contact

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« Reply #2 on: December 31, 2018, 05:15:39 PM »
Happy New Year!!

Blessings to all far and near - we still have 45 minutes to go!

The fireworks are loud though - my poor dogs
M 58
H 58
S 27
D 24
BD 13 Dec 2010
Divorced 27 Feb 2015 (30 years marriage)

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future" Jeremiah 29:11

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« Reply #3 on: December 31, 2018, 05:28:30 PM »
Happy New Year, everyone! Wishing us all a year full of hope and happiness.

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« Reply #4 on: December 31, 2018, 06:26:09 PM »
Back at you 1t!
Happy new year.
“In the end, you’ve got to be your own hero because everyone’s busy trying to save themselves.”

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« Reply #5 on: December 31, 2018, 06:37:50 PM »
Happy New Year!  Less than 3 hours to go to the ball drop and also to my wedding Anniversary which was the night of January 1st - 23 years ago.  Too many changes since then, and sadly, I have no idea where my H is tonight.  Officially, I suppose he is an ExH, so this is my first non-Anniversary.
H:56, I am 54
BD: March 2014, Left Sept 2014, Back Nov 2014
Left again in February 2015.  Asked for D on 9/22/15
Said he was "sure" he wanted a D in Dec 2015; 
Admitted long term affair - May 14, 2017 - says he is in love with the "symptom" but wants to build a relationship with me with "clear expectations" WHATEVER THAT MEANS!  Settlement Agreement signed 9/20/17.
Divorce final 3/14/18.
NC - by choice - 1/2018

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« Reply #6 on: December 31, 2018, 06:40:32 PM »
Wishing all my fellow LBS's (standing or not) a year full of laughter, faith and hope... Let there be a stronger self esteem in each and every one of you and the knowledge that you ARE loved and appreciated.

((Hugs)) and toast to all... Let's make this OUR year
M 38
MLC H 42
Together 7 1/2 yrs
Married  6 yrs
 S 16 (dd) (Different father)

BD 1: January 2017 (D brought up)
 BD 2: Mid January (ILYBINILWY speech)
BD 3: March 2017 (OW confirmed- EA)/ Moved out
BD 4: July 2017 (Sexual relations with family member)
BD 5: August 2017 (Leaving country to meet OW

June 2018-Rebuilding our marriage one step at a time

November 2018-
BD 6- H "considering us not being together anymore"
BD 7- OW #2 confirmed by H family member
Living together but separated

December 2018
BD 8-H brings OW #2 to home

Done and indifferent

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« Reply #7 on: December 31, 2018, 09:08:48 PM »
Happy New Year! I wish you all a 2019 full of joy, hope, peace and strength.

It has been 2019 here for some 5 hours and, so far, so good. Beautiful stars filled sky, quiet and a lovely family evening.
Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together. (Marilyn Monroe)


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