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Offline One day at a time

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Meet-Up Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #10 on: January 08, 2019, 12:37:23 PM »
Sounds great!! I'll have to see if I can afford it, etc but definitely will try my best to make it!
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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #11 on: January 08, 2019, 01:15:12 PM »
I will be watching this carefully! I obviously cannot promise I can be there, especially given my current financial strictures ::) but who knows?

My passport is up to date and its been over 46 years since I stepped a foot in Italy ;)
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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #12 on: January 08, 2019, 01:31:35 PM »
Don’t post much but read everyday. I am definitely interested. Was in the process of booking a trip to italy but have been undecided about where to go. Not bothered where or when but would love to join one (or maybe two) of Milly’s wine sessions. Count me in.

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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #13 on: January 08, 2019, 03:32:20 PM »
That sounds fab, I’m interested in joining you, it’d be lovely to have something like this to look forward to ;D
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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #14 on: January 08, 2019, 03:47:05 PM »
Oooh, I'm getting excited. I think that everyone should post their best months, give more than one option if possible.

 Airports are Florence and Pisa. It's possible to fly to Bologna, too, but that makes things more complicated.

If we choose a house nearer Florence, we could take a day trip to the Cinque Terre, which is about 2 hours away.

This could be amazing. Look into flights and let's see how many of us we can get together.
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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #15 on: January 08, 2019, 03:59:53 PM »
Any month bar April. Prefer June or Sept
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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #16 on: January 08, 2019, 05:14:17 PM »
I would also be interested if there is room.  Probably June would be my first choice.

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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #17 on: January 08, 2019, 05:59:53 PM »
Yes. June or September. I remember Florence being really hot in the summer.

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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #18 on: January 08, 2019, 06:21:37 PM »
Is there a special viewing of the pink fridge?

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Re: Meet up in Tuscany. Who's interested?
« Reply #19 on: January 08, 2019, 07:15:50 PM »
I'm interested...and June would be best for me. Ideally, the third week? That's getting a bit specific...but that's the best combo of availability and cost of flights in my case.

I use an app called Hopper to look for fares, but I can't guarantee it's the best way to do things. It is easy though.

How many days would the LBSs be gathering for?

 

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