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#120: March 10, 2020, 05:37:52 AM
Hello

I’m really struggling with the forum again!

It’s all changed again - after being ok for a while!

It’s virtually unreadable and unusable again!!!!

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Please don’t quote a load of stuff at me to try and correct this as I don’t understand a word of it! I’m a technophobic dinosaur!

I don't know why but you were set back to the "new" default theme...

I set you back to the old theme again like I did a while ago....

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Re: The Positives XXIII
#121: March 10, 2020, 11:00:44 AM
Thank you all and thank you dear Ursa for coming to my rescue yet again!

I’m hopeless if things change!!!

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Re: The Positives XXIII
#122: March 12, 2020, 11:50:59 AM
Hello dear friends...

Another difficult and sad day today - my daughter - my little girl, has lost the baby she’s been carrying!

It’s been a difficult time as she’s in a very unhappy relationship but I suppose I just kept hoping for the best but I can’t help feeling the terrible stress she was under has caused this loss

I’m am so so sad. It’s hit me terribly hard. When I think nothing will hurt me ever again, something happens that just floors me! Apparently even my H is terribly upset but I’ve not heard from him. My daughter just told me she was surprised by how he’s taken the news.

I don’t know why - I suppose I feel like THS is part of me - like a family that I have to share good and bad news with

I’m so glad to be home now from work so that I can grieve in peace.

Thank you all for listening 😔
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#123: March 12, 2020, 11:58:22 AM
I am so sorry Serenity, sending love to you and your Daughter. xxx
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#124: March 12, 2020, 12:08:44 PM
My deepest sympathy serenity for you and your daughter and her baby.

This is a deep and terrible loss for you my friend. I am so sorry xoxoxo
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#125: March 12, 2020, 12:21:16 PM
I’m sorry your daughter has lost her baby and your grand baby.  Such sad news
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Re: The Positives XXIII
#126: March 12, 2020, 12:23:17 PM
I am so sorry Serenity - it must be very hard.

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Re: The Positives XXIII
#127: March 12, 2020, 12:35:52 PM
I'm so sorry, Serenity. I think when we're already struggling, we need everything else to go well. Every extra personal hurt is too much. Sending you and your D a big hug. I will be thinking of you xxxx
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#128: March 12, 2020, 02:10:57 PM
I’m so sorry to hear about your family’s loss.
Hugs to all of you,

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Re: The Positives XXIII
#129: March 12, 2020, 07:34:44 PM
I'm sorry to hear your sad news. I know how difficult this type of loss can be. I'm glad you were able to come here and share the news with your other family.
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