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#70: March 18, 2019, 05:21:53 PM
Sorry to hear you are feeling unwell Serenity, our minds put us in a lot of turmoil and can be our worst enemy at times.

I agree with the others about your dog, don't allow your H to have anything to do with care - they are hopeless looking after themselves, how can they look after a pet :o

My good friend is traveling at the moment Serenity and just landed in the UK.  She's a nurse and natural therapist and just a little bit nutty in  a good way - like us ;D  You'd love her and she'd love you.  I'll message you to see if you'd be interested in meeting her as she's one of the best natural therapists I know.  She'd have you back on track in no time....

Keep away from medical doctors, they bury their mistakes :-X
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http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8412(Denjef's thread)

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Re: The Positives XXIII
#71: April 08, 2019, 12:32:41 AM
I’m just posting to draw attention to the fact that the site isn’t appearing properly! It all looks huge and it’s virtually unusable!

It was very hard to even log in normally

I presume some settings have been altered? I hope this gets sorted out very soon as it’s just not working as it is!

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Re: The Positives XXIII
#72: April 08, 2019, 12:35:50 AM
My access is fine and the background colour and "theme"? has changed but everything functioning normally. RCR did post about this on community thread.
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Re: The Positives XXIII
#73: April 09, 2019, 04:56:47 PM
I can’t find what I previously posted on.... mine looks different too Serenity 😔

Hope your well❤️
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Re: The Positives XXIII
#74: April 10, 2019, 01:46:06 AM
I’m just posting to draw attention to the fact that the site isn’t appearing properly! It all looks huge and it’s virtually unusable!

It was very hard to even log in normally

I presume some settings have been altered? I hope this gets sorted out very soon as it’s just not working as it is!

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Should all be back to normal now... If it is not, you'll need to clear your Internet Cache on whatever browser you are using because what you are seeing is the locally stored format.

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Re: The Positives XXIII
#75: April 10, 2019, 04:49:46 AM
Thank you S & D,

I’m fine thank you dear 31. I do hope you’re happy and well? X

Ursa,
Yesterday everything appeared back to normal, as in colour and size on the screen but today the colours have changed again and part of the site is off my screen.

I’m an utter technophobe so I don’t understand any of these technical terms that others’ are suggesting I try to resolve this. I really don’t understand why it was all completely fine yesterday and now slightly not right again?!?

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#76: April 10, 2019, 04:53:27 AM
Thank you S & D,

I’m fine thank you dear 31. I do hope you’re happy and well? X

Ursa,
Yesterday everything appeared back to normal, as in colour and size on the screen but today the colours have changed again and part of the site is off my screen.

I’m an utter technophobe so I don’t understand any of these technical terms that others’ are suggesting I try to resolve this. I really don’t understand why it was all completely fine yesterday and now slightly not right again?!?

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Hi Serenity,

Can't tell you there... It all looks fine for me on PC, tablet and phone (Of course, I am using Chrome on all three)..... Yesterday morning(?) or the day before the colors were off but luckily I never saw the formatting/font issues....
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Re: The Positives XXIII
#77: April 10, 2019, 01:18:02 PM
Thanks Ursa

I have no idea what’s going on!

It’s bizarre! One minute it’s all ok and then next time I come on it’s wrong again! Urghhhh!

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#78: April 11, 2019, 05:33:35 PM
I’m good my friend. Busy and a little frustrated with the site. I no longer have the option to post on the threads I’ve been following? Sigh.... technology  is a wonderful thing but why did this have to change? I’m okay with change and maybe I just haven’t been on enough so this is my punishment 😔

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Re: The Positives XXIII
#79: April 11, 2019, 09:28:03 PM
I had that 31 not long ago and discovered I had accidentally put my phone on to private browsing so wouldn’t let me do anything. Xx
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