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Online 3Boys4Me

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My Story Re: When you let are truly free
« Reply #120 on: November 11, 2019, 03:46:25 PM »
So terribly sorry for your loss Smiling - so glad you got to be part of his last days, I hope that is a comfort to you. I am happy your dad had peace in his passing...
BD End of April 2017
Moved out - kind of, May 2017
Denied affair
Cycled hard April - Oct 2017, my son figured out affair, I confronted husband, we were going away as a family for the weekend - H monsters hard and files for a D end of Oct, 2017
D final Sept 2018
Many touch and goes
He lives in monster, kids haven’t been with him overnight since Jan 2019
Moved in with MOW, a former friend of mine, May 2019

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Re: When you let are truly free
« Reply #121 on: November 11, 2019, 04:28:37 PM »
Mrs. Smiling, I'm so sorry for the loss of your father.  You have been through so much, yet continue with dignity and grace.  Well done.  It is always nice the come across fellow LBS who choose to make the very best outcome for themselves and truly end up leaving the MLC'er behind.  Ironic, huh?

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Re: When you let are truly free
« Reply #122 on: November 11, 2019, 04:39:29 PM »
Helping me, beyondblessed, 3boys4me,

Thank you so much, he was really a good man. Being the "baby" in the family, I had a special attachment to him.
Everyday is a new beginning.

I appreciate your messages.

Hugs to you all
Be the best version of yourself... there is no other

You cant break my spirit, its my dreams you take - James Blunt

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Re: When you let are truly free
« Reply #123 on: November 16, 2019, 03:47:23 PM »
Mrs -
Also expressing my sorrow for the passing of your father.
I'm sorry H is unable to show any emotion right now.
It's just a blank emotion in the fog that is so common.

Glad you were able to get out.
Keep loving your LBS life to its fullest.

Seahorses have one mate for life...


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