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#150: August 03, 2020, 06:20:07 PM
I had received it a few weeks is hard to listen to after so many years...but oh she describes the pain so well.
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"Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see" Hebrews 11:1

"You enrich my life and are a source of joy and consolation to me. But if I lose you, I will not, I must not spend the rest of my life in unhappiness."

" The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it". Flannery O'Connor

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#151: August 04, 2020, 01:19:06 AM
Guess what Roo?

You have 150 posts! It's time for a new thread!

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Me - 57, xW - 50
Together 19 years - Married 17 at separation & 21 at D-Day
S - 13, D - 9
2 Dogs
BD#1 - August 2015
Atomic BD - 13 Dec 2015
House sold & separated - Mar 2016
Divorce final 30 August 2019

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#152: August 04, 2020, 04:13:22 PM
OK I know this is in violation....but I love that song Gaslighter!  It is as if she lived through exactly what we did.
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H 47
BD 5/16
H Moved out 6/16
OW--yes. Worked for H. EA turned into PA while I was in chemo. On again/off again like every high school romance

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#153: August 04, 2020, 04:23:07 PM
Thanks UM.  I will comply in a few weeks after my epic road trip with my daughter!

KIT, listen to the entire album.  It’s pretty amazing how much emotion is captured. I thought of you when I heard this song:

I will return with a new thread and an evolving me . Forward I go!

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Husband 55
Me 55
Kids 3 sons 29, 27, 25 1 daughter 20
BD #1 Spring 2016
BD #2 Winter 2017
married 33 years.  Together 35
H never moved out except 3 weeks after BD #1
OW 30 year single mom employee-He says EA only I don’t believe him.


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