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Discussion Script sentences and WTF moments
OP: May 08, 2019, 02:27:25 AM
Some of the threads I read recently made me think about script once again. I can't stop wondering how it's possible that people around the world in MLC use almost or totally exact words in certain phases. It's somehow even spooky you know, like some kind of becoming a zombie symptom or other similar stuff from horror movie  ;D :o
There may have been this kind of thread before, maybe many of them and everyone's threads are full of these, but just thought that would be interesting to make some sort of collection  ::)

So call them script sentences or WTF moments,
Here are mine, these are all heard at least once during my journey from XW:

I don't know who I am anymore
I don't want to live in loveless marriage
I never though I would get trapped in my life like this
You were never there for me  :o :o :o
You are crazy
You are delusional/paranoid
You have been depressed for years
I feel like I am in the eye of a hurricane
I feel like I have to walk over anyone that stands in my way
I feel like I have to break my life to pieces
You don't let me change/grow as a person
Can we separate and then maybe get back together
Would you travel abroad with me? (after just left and divorced me)
Can we make a trip as a family? (after divorced months ago)

I'm sure I have more, will update maybe later. Feel free to post your  :o moments.

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Re: Script sentences and WTF moments
#1: May 08, 2019, 02:42:31 AM
Oh this is a good one!! Here is my list

- ILYBINILWY (most of us got this one)
- You don't buy breaded chicken
- You never come fishing with me
- Our relationship has become very superficial (as he took every opportunity to travel for work and spend as much time as possible with his family when he was home)
- It's not you, it's me.
- You are not happy
- We want different things
- I feel like I'm in a hole I can't get out of
- We have a good life but it's not enough, I'm not happy
- My life has no purpose
- I'm old (40), no longer in my prime.
- I'm always afraid to disappoint (as he broke my heart in a million pieces and seemed not to care about disappointing me)

I'm sure there are more...
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H - 43 (40 @BD1)
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Together 15 years, M 8 @separation
No kids
BD1 - 26th Aug 2017 (Not happy, life has no purpose, "we have problems")
BD2 - 22nd March 2018 (Marriage is over, we want different things, confessed EA with someone 12,000 kms away although "she means nothing")
H moved in with parents 11th May 2018 (I asked him to leave as couldn't handle the EA rubbed all over my face)
H moved abroad 29th Dec 2018, not sure if OW will join him or if they are still in contact.
Confirmation H and OW are together, presume PA  - 3rd June 2019
H gets engaged with OW (we are not divorced) - Oct 2019

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Re: Script sentences and WTF moments
#2: May 08, 2019, 12:55:35 PM
I can't even remember most of them, but the ones I heard/hear the most were/are:

I'm sorry. - Number one!
Why don't you wanna talk to me? - Number two!
You're trying to kill me.
You just like making me upset.
You like messing with me.
You like to see me suffer.
You've always been vengeful. That's what I never liked about you.
You don't listen.
You don't show any emotions. - He wanted me to cry over him.
You're happy being by yourself, you've always been.

And same as One Day at a Time:

We have a good life but it's not enough, I'm not happy. - Heard that a lot, it's just not enough.

Same as Silver:

Can we separate and then maybe get back together. - Heard that a few times too.

Would you travel abroad with me? -  Heard that last month. Wanted us to go to Mexico together in the summer. Why???
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OW discovered Aug 2017
EA started Dec 2016? PA start unsure
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Re: Script sentences and WTF moments
#3: May 08, 2019, 02:05:58 PM
Hmmmm

ILYBINILWY
I never loved you
I didn’t want to marry you
I never felt listened to or heard ( he never talked to me about any of the above until BD)
I think you’re trying to poison me
I’m sorry
You need to get your own life
I’m a loner ( despite living with ow)

These are the ones I just thought about there are many more
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Re: Script sentences and WTF moments
#4: May 08, 2019, 03:27:32 PM
My fav, and this is in retrospect, he came home late on night drunk and crazy and accused me of cheating, ranting and raving that I was a cheater! Yes, I was dumb (never a cheater though). In my defence he did routinely talk rubbish while drunk.
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Re: Script sentences and WTF moments
#5: May 08, 2019, 03:36:37 PM

" Should we get divorced so we can reconcile? "
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Re: Script sentences and WTF moments
#6: May 08, 2019, 03:47:23 PM
This IS good....

You are edgy (this is after we attended MC and she'd said to me, "You have an EDGE!"
You either grow together, or grow apart
You eat toddler-esque food
You drink a sixer every night
You're a hoarder
You don't care what time all of my company events start
You married UP

.....Enough said?!



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Re: Script sentences and WTF moments
#7: May 08, 2019, 04:17:09 PM
Ilybinilwy
You never travel
I lost myself
We want different things
Im sorry
I care about
I don't see. You in my. Future
I never loved you
You held me back
My brain wasn't fully devoloped when we got married.

These are some of things I've heard from w.
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Re: Script sentences and WTF moments
#8: May 09, 2019, 01:42:20 AM
You are all I have ever known
we could get remarried
do you want to date (other men)
you are more of a sister to me
you know thats not me
I didnt leave the kids , I left you(haha)
I have no money
I had to marry you
its not about ow , i could care less about her
after 5 years   is still saying he wants to move on with his life (he left 5 years ago , has ow, has own apt) isnt that moving on
calls us his family and yet we havent done any "family" things in 5 years but does with ow and her kids.

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Re: Script sentences and WTF moments
#9: May 09, 2019, 01:58:41 AM
You are all I have ever known
we could get remarried
do you want to date (other men)
you are more of a sister to me
you know thats not me
I didnt leave the kids , I left you(haha)
I have no money
I had to marry you
its not about ow , i could care less about her
after 5 years   is still saying he wants to move on with his life (he left 5 years ago , has ow, has own apt) isnt that moving on
calls us his family and yet we havent done any "family" things in 5 years but does with ow and her kids.


Oh I had forgotten the sister one, I also got "I love you like I would love a sister"  ::)
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H - 43 (40 @BD1)
M - 43 (40 @BD1)
Together 15 years, M 8 @separation
No kids
BD1 - 26th Aug 2017 (Not happy, life has no purpose, "we have problems")
BD2 - 22nd March 2018 (Marriage is over, we want different things, confessed EA with someone 12,000 kms away although "she means nothing")
H moved in with parents 11th May 2018 (I asked him to leave as couldn't handle the EA rubbed all over my face)
H moved abroad 29th Dec 2018, not sure if OW will join him or if they are still in contact.
Confirmation H and OW are together, presume PA  - 3rd June 2019
H gets engaged with OW (we are not divorced) - Oct 2019

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