Ursa, that was… disconcerting 😬
Just got back from delivering 25 Christmas stockings full of toys and practical items. I didn’t reach my own arbitrary goal of 30 but it’s still a good batch and this is my favorite new tradition that I started my first Christmas after BD.
This year had a few bumps (someone stole grocery store gift cards and other items out of one of my donation boxes when I left it unattended for all of 20 minutes
)
This year in addition to local donations, I also set up an amazon wishlist so people could purchase items that would be delivered directly to me to be added to stockings for various age groups That worked out okay but needs some tweaking for next year.
Anyway, just sharing another idea for anyone looking for ways to at least temporarily keep your mind off life’s other stressors during the holidays. You can arrange to deliver donations to your local fire department, YMCA, food bank (arrange with them early in the fall, they all have different preferences about what they need and will/won’t accept).
The desire to be loved is the last illusion. Give it up and you shall be free. ~ Margaret Atwood