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#130: July 26, 2020, 07:39:11 PM
Two Staffordshire Bull Terriers?  They can be a handful but great dogs.  Sweet personalities.

I had 2 Great Danes and would recommend them to anyone, if they can afford to feed them.  Ha ha



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"From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did."

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#131: July 26, 2020, 11:38:19 PM
HI Shock
Glad to hear that you and Shock's Sis are both doing well. And yes that OP knows what he is talking about with Time doesn't he? I hope that some of the not so pleasant interactions did not outweigh some of the possible benefits to your sister of telling her story on HS. Of course, that was all she could do....her experience is simply her experience, and iirc she worked very hard to remind people that she had no magic answers and that focusing on themselves was a sensible choice. But desparate hurt people sometimes don't want to hear things they don't want to hear or want to find answers that don't exist in reality. Anyway, please give her a hug from those of us who appreciated her courage and generosity in sharing her story  :)

Decorating together sounds nice. Does your sister live far away or quite close by?

Your Staffies sound lovely  :)
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#132: July 27, 2020, 10:50:23 PM
Hello Mego,

Ltns. Oh the craziness of MLC!
Keep going forward Mego for his mistakes are his own. You are way better than that.
My sister is well and often wonders how you are all doing.
What happened to the “gang” who hounded her every post?
Good to hear from you Mego, you’re sounding more settled and accepting. Always remember, God’s got this, he won’t let you down.
God bless you Mego
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#133: July 27, 2020, 10:55:14 PM
Wow Thunder,

Two Great Danes, who takes who for a walk lol.
My pets are my companions, the one Staffie my h bought me for Valentines one year. As for the parrot, he’s highly entertaining though throws in the odd expletive. My friend, the Vicar was on the other end of his swearing though she’s pretty easy going and found it amusing luckily.
Only draw back is the parrot speaks with my h’s voice!
Onwards on my journey I go
God bless you Thunder
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#134: July 27, 2020, 11:03:28 PM
Hello Treasur,

My sister lives quite nearby so I see her often and talk every day on the phone.
She has been my greatest supporter during this and although it sometimes draws her back to a time she wouldn’t want to go to she does and explains how similar my h’s actions are to her own during her MLC.
She tried to help as many as she could to get some kind of understanding of what MLC is like to someone in it. Though not exactly the same so many similarities are there in them all, hence the script.
I’m doing ok, I get on with my life and have become pretty much detached.
I saw a recent pic of my h he put on FB and he looks quite disturbed. Nothing like the happy go lucky person he once was, the eyes of an MLCer are so blank and dark. Still, it’s not my problem so on I go.

God bless you Treasur
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#135: July 28, 2020, 05:16:29 PM
Shock

I hope your sister will reconsider THS. 

We remaining folk miss her insight terribly!


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#136: August 10, 2020, 03:46:05 PM
Kicking this up a notch hoping Shock & her sis will make guest appearances? 😎
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