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#30: October 28, 2020, 12:26:45 PM

It has been a while since I last posted on my thread. A lot of ups and a few downs.

Outdoor furniture arrived and the fire table. About time. Really looking forward to enjoying an cool evening with the fire and a cocktail with the wife by my side.

Of course, fire breaks out in my county and my lovely new furniture is covered in ash. So I am trying to figure out how to clean it without working the ash into the fabric. So if you have any good advice, please, please post.

Wife and I had a fabulous anniversary weekend together. We just went to a hotel, had a couple of great dinners, an okay breakfast and a really nice long walk. Lot's of time to talk and focus on each other. It is nice to have a great time and come back feeling closer than ever.

On my professional front, we have opened both elementary schools. One month of students on campus and no outbreaks so far. Some positive tests for staff, but not linked to the site. Everyone in masks and social distancing. Lots of handwashing, temperature checks, and wipes galore.
However, just having the kids back on campus and learning is worth all the effort.

Hope everyone has a great remainder of the week and an even better weekend,

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#31: October 28, 2020, 03:57:53 PM
I’ve been desperate for a fire pit for a long time. So I’ll live vicariously for through you 😂
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Me - 28
H - 35
3 children together D3 D6 D8 (D1 D4 and D6 at the time of BD)
Together - almost 8 years

BD & MLCer moved out - November 2017
OW discovered - December 2017
Moved in with Ow - November 2019
Ow met children - December 2019

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#32: October 30, 2020, 05:04:53 PM
Ready, your weekend away sounds lovely!  I’m so glad your elementary opening is going well.  These fires are out of control!!!
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Married 20 years
Husband is 43
4 kids 6-15 years old

BD-October 2018-ILYBNIL, wants a divorce, this after I found out about OW 1(EA), OW2(PA) no longer together.  I believe he is single. 
April 2019 He got an apartment and moved out.
Oct 2019-Apologized for a years worth of monster behavior.  Still wants to start divorce this Spring, is distant, but friendly.  Tries more with kids, but mostly just helps haul them around(superficial).
Spring 2019 H agreed to put off the divorce another school year to keep the kids and I from moving back to TX.
2020-He has continued to help out when asked and be polite.  I do think he questions his choices at times.  I do not believe he has OW.
Oct 30 2020-He wants to get back together.  I am unsure.

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#33: November 01, 2020, 05:45:22 PM
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So happy for your bonding anniversary with your wife.
Living vicariously through you!

Fire pits are amazing; planning on building one in the Spring.

Glad that school is back in without a hiccough. 
Keeping my fingers crossed that it stays that way!

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