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#60: January 10, 2020, 08:30:07 AM
So it looks like Sept?
Still Southwold?
Week of the 12th?
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#61: January 10, 2020, 08:41:02 AM
September 12th - 19th?  That would be perfect.    :)   The same week last year in Tuscany.  Good omen.
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#62: January 10, 2020, 08:44:22 AM
I'll look at some options over the weekend and post some here....

Oh, maybe we are starting a European Sept tradition then, Anon?

And yes,Milly....lots of little villages with thatched cottages and old churches like an Agatha Christie story plus some beautiful coast plus trips on rivers and some lovely old market towns. Music, lots of local food markets and suppliers, birdwatching, horse racing. And castles....even Ed Sheeran's hometown lol. Ooh and we could all go to my kitsch little cinema  :) all in all, where I live is about as traditional English as you can imagine.... (are we tempting you yet, Barbie?)

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T: 18  M: 12 (at BD) No kids.
H diagnosed with severe depression Oct 15. BD May 16. OW since April 16, maybe earlier. Silent vanisher mostly.
Divorced April 18. XH married ow 6 weeks later.


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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#63: January 10, 2020, 09:10:40 AM
Bit of a busman’s holiday for you Treasur!
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#64: January 10, 2020, 09:20:06 AM
I just checked flight costs and it's way cheaper to fly in September than in June and direct flights to London are still available.  A direct flight is 8.5 hrs for me and a one stop flight is 11.5 hrs.  I would love a direct flight this time around for 8.5 hrs.   My flight home last year was 2 stops and took 28 hrs. 

I'll wait until we nail down our dates and then I'm grabbing a non-stop flight, hopefully before they are all sold. 

Thanks Treasur for coordinating things!   And,, YES,,, make a tradition for a September European cult meeting!  France next maybe?  or idk,,, anywhere in Europe.   I've only been to Italy so far. :)
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#65: January 10, 2020, 09:26:41 AM
Best to fly to Heathrow if you can. Train here goes from Liverpool st in London....nearest station is Darsham and we can co-ordinate pick ups or a shared taxi pick up nearer the time.

If you are planning to hire a car, London Stansted is the closest airport but bad for train connection to here.
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H diagnosed with severe depression Oct 15. BD May 16. OW since April 16, maybe earlier. Silent vanisher mostly.
Divorced April 18. XH married ow 6 weeks later.


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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#66: January 10, 2020, 10:23:27 AM
Works for me.

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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#67: January 10, 2020, 10:36:12 AM
So, I think....


Sept
Enyo
Anon
Milly
Nerissa
RedStar
Seahorse
Rising Phoenix
Bewildered Survivor
Maleficent
Sachat (few days/weekend)
KIT

Plus maybe dogwalker or Morte as visitors but not included in accommodation?

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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#68: January 10, 2020, 11:06:42 AM
Wow what a phenomenal  team we are! Organizing a trip when you have Treasur and Anon in the group is soooo easy.
I love September as an idea and I don’t think we need to go a whole week. Maybe 5 days over the weekend? Then there can be extra days elsewhere for those who want to carry on. Sometimes houses require a 7 night booking though.
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#69: January 10, 2020, 11:25:48 AM
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« Last Edit: January 10, 2020, 12:07:23 PM by Treasur »
T: 18  M: 12 (at BD) No kids.
H diagnosed with severe depression Oct 15. BD May 16. OW since April 16, maybe earlier. Silent vanisher mostly.
Divorced April 18. XH married ow 6 weeks later.


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