[megogirl]

According to S16, XH is panicking.  He’s concerned about all of his subordinates (about 100 of them spanning the whole East coast.)

He’s having to face the fact that he isn’t so “special” after all.  That at the end of the day, it doesn’t matter how much money you earn - it’s whether or not you have toilet paper.

As an aside, the domino effect this is having is quite ugly.  How do couples coexist 24/7 with their relationships intact?

[Caroline]

3boys,
 Please keep us updated. I will be praying for your whole family! This is awful and scary and you know you have us here. Please please take care of yourself!

[in it]

Good point Mego, and that 24/7 lock up with some of these MLCers might not be the safest place to be either.
There are a few of us that are very grateful we are not in that position.

[Dismiss3]

My H is in his own apt since dec 2019 and sees OW; but last couple of days has called 2 of my girls and asked how things are going at their jobs and if things are ok. He has been trying to contact me in regards to same stuff; but I’ve decided to go “no contact” for mental sake. Plus he’s already got his info from 2 of his kids. So🤷🏼‍♀️

[Keep believing]

Mine still doesnt give a $h!te. 3 out of my 4 kids are back living at home. Lost their job and one back from university. I asked h to help out financially has my groceries and all utilities will double. To make a couple of emails very short he called me a phsycopath.  Nice . He thinks everyone is over reacting. This should put a damper on his life style of partying but he will find a way.

[Seahorse]

Keep Believing -
I'm sorry that your H is still in his crisis.
I imagine that most of our MLCers who are in crisis can only behave poorly when adding the covid crisis.
It's probably more than they can handle.
I am sure the partying will be curtailed as there's not other option with everything closed.

Please take care of yourself and try to enjoy time with your kids while they're home.
This will pass, and they'll be on their own again.
Maybe the government can help with aded expenses, if your H won't?
I hope the one out of job filed for unemployment?  That should help a bit?

Stay safe and hugs.
Sea

[Mitzpah]

I am reaching out to my beloved - he is silent. I sent him a message asking him to check in with me as I am concerned about him.

We are obviously still heavily grieving our son, I know that for me, death would be a gain, knowing that I would see my son so soon , however, I know that God is in charge and if I am still here, He has a purpose for me. I am not taking unnecessary risks at all.

I am just concerned for him.

He had a cold last week and I see from his small company instagram account that they will only be maintaining his services open (motorcyle mechanics). So, I guess he is still going to work (as I am - I work for a company that provides medical supplies to all hospitals in Brazil, especially masks, respiratory filters and drapes).

May God give us all health and resilience .

[em5731]

You got to wonder what they are doing, my ex needs to be busy all the time. He asked my daughter to go to his house with him and bake a cake. I didn't know he knew how. We are basically in lock down, nothing is open. OW must be gone as she hasn't been invited to his house in years.

[Seahorse]

EM -
Interesting...
Maybe your D will get the scoop...
Anyway, I'm glad she's able to spend time with her dad - if she goes.
MLCers are so confusing!

Sea

[3Boys4Me]

As we continue with quarantine and nudge closer to a stay at home order in WA state, my MLCer is out running to the goricery store for us now - rumor has it that we are going to be locked down for another four weeks, we are in home quarantine anyway due to the virus, but four weeks is a very long time - finally said “yes” to his offer of help (through the boys) and now for the last three days he is asking about me directly rom the kids - I also have in-laws reaching out, a SIL that I love dearly. Stay safe everyone.