Hello!
I hope you are all staying healthy in these unusual and turbulent times, which calls for checking in with my HS buddies.
Please, if I may offer the perspective of a healthcare worker who is deeply involved in a world-wide Covid 19 research and at the frontline of caring for patients afflicted with the pandemic.
H is a physician and an epidemiologist with decades of experience and hundreds of publications on public health. At the moment, he is heavily involved in Covid19 research. He has several conference calls every day with numerous doctors in North America, Europe and East Asia who are directly treating and researching C19 patients. No, they and H do not get paid a single cent for their work. It is all in the spirit of professional cooperation, academic curiosity and community service, the last point being the central theme.
I feel comfortable saying that H knows what he is talking about and I respect his opinion on the current pandemic. This is what he tells family and friends when they seek his advice:
“In the absence of any proven and well vetted vaccine and medication, our best treatment is social distancing. Be patient, be tolerant, and be charitable. For the time being: Stay home, stay alive. Stay home, keep the community alive. Stay home, keep me and other healthcare workers alive.“
An entire wing of the hospital where H works has been prepared for Covid19 patients. It’s standing almost empty. H is delighted — it means social distancing and closing down non-essential businesses, events and schools are working. Nearly empty C19 wards mean that the government took action in time but prepared for the worst case scenario. It means people are trusting the experts’ recommendations and are complying. It means scores upon scores of lives, especially the most vulnerable among us, were saved by collective actions of the citizens. The Covid19 wards will stay nearly empty if we continue to practice social distancing until the infection and death rates go down to the level deemed safe by the population health statistical modelling experts. These are one of those things lay people (including H, he says) do not know enough to form meaningful opinions on them. H tells me those empty wards will stay for a while as the virus is not going anywhere fast. It’s found a wonderful host (humans) and, among them, behold, some individuals that are willing to be its foot soldiers, voluntarily and ‘generously’ spreading it to others.
Many people I know have lost their jobs. Money is very tight. Some have closed their businesses and are suffering from huge financial losses. These are some of the serious consequences of shuttering non-essential businesses. These are facts and mostly beyond our control. The only thing we can control is our response. (Heard that before?
) There seem to be two major types of responses to them, rather similar to LBS’s responses to MLC and MLCers.
1. Some are angry and bitter about the virus and the restrictions put in place to protect the community. Some people are busy looking for others to blame and falsely accuse. Some complain that they cannot go about doing their favourite activities and ask where is my freedom.
2. Some count their blessings — they and their families are healthy, even if their financial situation is nothing but rosy. They are thankful they have a roof over their heads and enough food on the table, and they have each other. I hear this time and again — many things in life are superfluous: this pandemic has given a precious opportunity to prioritize what really matters in life. Money, beyond their needs, seems to have been taken off their list. For the time being, anyway. Of course, there are those who worry about roof and food. Each one of us needs to dig deep and help those in need. I am thankful and feel blessed that our government is leading us in this charitable effort to help suffering fellow human beings. If I may allow myself to make one cheeky comment, please — No, the name of PM’s is not on the relief cheques.
In all this turmoil, a sense of social responsibility is strong in my neck of the woods — everything is not about ME. It is about my neighbours, too. A period of self control and self sacrifice will benefit the whole society, and in turn, it will benefit each individual. What goes around, comes around.
Where I live, family, friends and community are rallying around those struggling financially or emotionally — daily calls with those who live alone, gifting money, offering cooked meals and playing a secrete Santa by dropping off store vouchers in the letterbox of the families whose breadwinners lost their jobs. There is a flower angel amongst us who has been dropping off beautiful bouquets to those who desperately need a boost.
The pandemic is bringing out the best in my community and country. And the worst. I am thankful ‘the best’ outnumbers ‘the worst’ by far. My belief in the goodness of human beings is holding well.
Stay safe.
(((((HUGS))))))