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My Story New Plan A
#70: November 29, 2020, 01:16:15 PM
So very good to hear from you, my friend!  And, if I may say so, this is an excellent update...especially about the new budding romance.   Love wins after all, and usually it is the one we don't see coming!  Keep on keeping on, PJ.
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#71: November 29, 2020, 04:41:58 PM
Exciting things are happening for you PJ!!  Yes, keep us updated!  Some of us have zero romance on the horizon😊.  So living vicariously as others said!
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Married 20 years
Husband is 43
4 kids 6-15 years old

BD-October 2018-ILYBNIL, wants a divorce, this after I found out about OW 1(EA), OW2(PA) no longer together.  I believe he is single. 
April 2019 He got an apartment and moved out.
Oct 2019-Apologized for a years worth of monster behavior.  Still wants to start divorce this Spring, is distant, but friendly.  Tries more with kids, but mostly just helps haul them around(superficial).
Spring 2019 H agreed to put off the divorce another school year to keep the kids and I from moving back to TX.
2020-He has continued to help out when asked and be polite.  I do think he questions his choices at times.  I do not believe he has OW.
Oct 30 2020-He wants to get back together.  I am unsure.


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