[Nas]

There’s no rhyme or reason. I got the opposite, like I was a piece of property. 
Almost a year after he left:
“The thought of you with another man makes me feel sick to my stomach.”
“If I walked into a restaurant and saw you with someone else, I’d be sick.”
“I feel sick at the thought of you sharing another man’s bed.”
That’s a lot of sick. 🙄 🙄🙄 Funny I’m the one who ended up with the serious illness.

[Biscuit]

Every time you touched me I felt violated …. That was a good one!
It will be easier for me when you leave because you don’t eat meat

[Biscuit]

I just had a thought, my w says she doesn't want to be with me but wants to continue to be best friends.

Why the £%$@ would you want to be best friends with someone you think is:
controlling
a sexual predator
a misogynist
violating you
untrustworthy
unattractive - in any way
objectifying women
creepy
no fun
lying to you

In short, I'm not sure about any of you but my friends don't have any of these traits and I'd be very concerned if they exhibited any of them and would probably choose not to be their friend if they did. So why, if I'm such a s*&tbag and I do all of these things, does my W want to be best friends with me....I'd run a bloody mile if my partner or friend did all these things, wouldn't you?

[Dragonfly33]

Biscuits, they all want to be friends with their spouses they despise. I got the same line from my H. Crisis or not I told him, we will never be friends and I would erase him from my memory if I could. LOL

[UrsaMajor]

Because we all, especially the new folks, need a dose of humor once in a while, this thread is dedicated to the incredibly WTF things that MLC'ers give as their reasons for "having" to leave and blow everything up.......

Make sure you are NOT drinking anything while reading or you might just

[zartheit]

At the last couples therapy session we had, the therapist asked what we believe are the biggest things to work on in the relationship. My ex-wife replied "communication".

[amazinglove]

“I don’t see us married”
“I have to try this”
“I’m not that man anymore, I hate him”
“Fate will always bring us together “
“I love you so much”
“I love you as my wife”

[Atari25]

The reasoning has changed but here is my list from my wife

Long time coming
Love you but not in love with you
Fresh start
Grown apart
Need to be free
Stuck it out for the kids (that went over very well with my daughter)
All our friends and neighbors are really "your friends"
I am stressed out when I am here and with you
My mental health is being affected by being here

All hurtful things but I know she is not mentally well. It's a helpless feeling, thank God for my friends, family and therapy!

Anyone thinking of therapy - Do it!!!

[Baxter1]

Therapy was a Godsend!

I got these:
‘I just need to see where this goes(R with OM)
I’ve been a mom and wife now I need to be me
I’ve been unhappy for a long time

[mcm64d]

Biscuits, they all want to be friends with their spouses they despise. I got the same line from my H. Crisis or not I told him, we will never be friends and I would erase him from my memory if I could. LOL

What a relief. I am a psychopath but my wife told me she wants to be friends to check out my new girlfriends and give them the eye (whatever that means) because we have been best friends for 15 years- "why throw that away?" I guess the marriage of near 11 was highly disposable. Maybe recyclable.; who the heck knows....