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#130: September 20, 2024, 05:28:42 PM
In the last 36 hours, I’ve had a slew of emails come in addressed to my long vanished ex.  A sports betting newsletter, some program benefit emails, a Genesis customer survey…not sure what’s up but my sympathetic nervous system doesn’t love this. Probably nothing but guess I have to add “check my credit report” to my already way overflowing plate.

Reminder to all LBS that after many years and many tax returns together, your ex will always have access to your social security number. 🤬
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Anyone else have a vanisher 23?
#131: July 19, 2026, 07:41:56 PM
Been a very long time since I thought about this thread. I got an email recently, it was very cryptic and not signed and I would’ve been really confused if not for the fact that it came from the email address with the full name (first, middle, maiden and married)of my former husband‘s partner. And all the email said was “ I know you saw him.” Oookkkayyy???? I most certainly have not. And don’t wish to. Literally no idea what it means.
I chalk it up to just bat $h!te crazy though I do admit, I did have a near panic attack at first just because she’s connected to him and, well, he’s him. And he’s not a good person. And I am a good person, and I deserve to be safe, among other things.
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The artist is the child who survived. ~ Ursula K. Le Guin

The desire to be loved is the last illusion. Give it up and you shall be free. ~ Margaret Atwood

The degree to which a person can grow is directly proportional to the amount of truth they can accept about themselves without running away.

You think *your* pain and *your* heartbreak are unprecedented in the history of the world, but then you read. ~ James Baldwin
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