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My Story Sheer indefatigability with learned perspicacity
#140: November 14, 2024, 07:00:17 AM
Yikes, MadLuv- that truly is alarming! Thank you so much for sharing. Looks truly can be deceiving, especially when you don’t have contact with the MLCer- your mind likes to start playing games of “what if”. They truly are lost.
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Sheer indefatigability with learned perspicacity
#141: November 14, 2024, 12:22:30 PM
My god ML, what a bizarre story! He choose poorly but that we already knew.. He’s living a crazy life, it’s going to bite him in the ass sooner than later.
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Together for 15 years, married for 4 years
H: 33, me: 33, D: 1,5
BD: april '22 (EA + 'I want to live alone, have no responsibilities')
Left home: june '22
Divorce final: october '22

“They didn’t cheat because of who you are. They chose to cheat because of who they’re not.” ~ Charles J. Orlando
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Re: Sheer indefatigability with learned perspicacity
#142: November 18, 2024, 04:24:45 PM
ML, it really does baffle the mind of just how far from grace our ex spouses fall and keep falling.  They take up with people, who when we were married to them,  they would in a million years have never associated with and then bend over backwards practically to hang on to these bottom feeders.  Crazy doesn't even begin to describe or explain it.

My ex is no longer with the ho worker, but incidentally her 1st xh was arrested again, yes multiple times, for battery, theft, etc.  She sure can pick the winners too.  It wasn't the happily ever after that my xh was proclaiming in the beginning, and it won't be for yours either because these people are all beyond damaged.
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